onetwothreefour Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 I am a sophomore in college and my gf just recently started her freshman year. We have been together for 2 years now and we've been inseparable. College has changed her.. We text a good amount and we always have. Lately she texts me ever hour or two with a one word answer and rarely says she loves me anymore. Whenever she goes out on weekends she will read my texts and then post a snap chat story with a couple different guys at a party. Then when I ask her about it and tell her it makes me feel uncomfortable and it seems like she is ignoring me, she says they are just friends and gets all defensive and tells me she doesn't wanna be on her phone 24/7. I'm trying to understand where she is coming from. We fought the other night because of this reason and now she keeps saying things are odd. And when I send you a text literally pouring my heart out to her she replies, "I love and miss you too." I trust her with my life, she's one of my best friends.. but it doesn't even seem like she is making an effort to talk to me. I ask her every night how her day went and she replies fine. She never asks how mine was. Not that that is a big deal but it would be nice to know she cares sometimes. I don't know what to do. I'm trying so hard to keep this together but I feel like the harder I try and more "mushy gushy" I get with her, it only pushes her away. I'm afraid if i give her space I will lose her too. And i don't want to risk that at all. Help please
d0nnivain Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 College changes people. Although you stayed true to her, she is finding a whole new world out there & wants to explore it unencumbered by her high school BF. You have to let her go. Sorry. 1
Assasda Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 (edited) Give her space. Of course, the more mushy gushy you get with her is going to push her away Edited September 6, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 1
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