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So I have posted a few times here about my BU, which occurred maybe 6/7 weeks ago at this stage, and since removing him from social media there has been NC from both ends over two weeks now, it sucks.

 

Anyway, at the beginning of our relationship there was a girl, I'll call her "Amy".

My ex was friendly with Amy before starting our relationship and I think they crushed on each other but when we started going out he obviously chose me, and she was pushed into th background. Nothing psychically happened between them though before. So a few weeks maybe three into going out, he went to a party, I was with my friends that night, and she kissed him. He didn't do anything back, pushed her away and left.

 

I found out off him and I thought she sounded like a b****, knowing he was with me and trying to get involved, anyway evtually he removed her off fb as she kept keeping contact with him and it made me uncomfortable. They had mutual friends so she would pop up every now and again and it was obivois she liked him so I always felt paranoid, people like that just need to back off. I didn't like the sound of her or her motives.

 

He ended relationship a few weeks back as I said and before I remove him off social media, he's friended her! They liked all of each other's pics/statuses/etc.

 

So I spent the relationship hating this person, as she's a home wrecker, he knew I hated her and has purposely put up stuff online with her , iv since deleted her etc, is this pay back? I don't know why he'd pick her so soon after? This is just mean behavior, I haven't done anyrhing wrong nor have I put anything online it's spiteful!

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He probably had a chance to revive a moment that has been turned into relation.

 

Would've never happened if he still had you.

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