Author Justsimplyliving Posted September 2, 2014 Author Posted September 2, 2014 Yes I am definitely ignoring her to heal myself. I mean even when she called saying she still loved me and missed me all I had to say was this call was pointless there is no sense in us talking unless you have something important to say. If it comes I will be ready could be a week a month a year but most importantly I cannot wait around.
Author Justsimplyliving Posted September 4, 2014 Author Posted September 4, 2014 Well.. like everyone says every relationship ends with a trail of breadcrumbs. For anyone in on my story. She has been trying to contact me since our break up a month of two now ago. She has text, called etc. Last week after seeing me at a local bar she text me and said Why did you come say hi to me? I ignored and received another text that said sorry.. I'm not trying to talk as friends. This was the day after she called me crying and telling me she still loves me and misses me.. Which I know means nothing its just her worrying about herself. Her and I do have some mutual friends as we attend the same college, her friends did manage to tell me that she has been a wreck lately. I dont know why but I just want to run into her, or be in contact with her I know that it wont solve any problems but still.. I have only talked to her once in the last 3 weeks which was her calling me crying I answered because I thought it may actually be something important. During that call I said nothing about wanting to reconcile or still loving her or anything like that, I just said talk isnt getting us anywhere because you dont have anything to say worth listening to. Harsh but needed to be said. I need to get the want to talk to her out of here before I mess up this great NC that I done thus far.
Author Justsimplyliving Posted September 4, 2014 Author Posted September 4, 2014 So everyone, do you think she is going to try to contact me again? Should I avoid going to that local bar or what?
heyitsmike Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 like everyone tells me, the only text you should be responding to is the "i miss you and want to talk about getting back together" text. and im not sure about the nature of your relationship or the break up itself, or even if you want her back, but if she keeps this up and that's the kind of response you're looking for , simply tell her: look the only conversation i want to have is a serious one. (or take it a step further and specifically mention a talk about us getting back together). good for you though dude, you r NC has seemed to be working, and you should feel empowered and proud of yourself help me?: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/492305-should-i-confront-my-ex-girlfriend-3.html
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