stillafool Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 First, no do not go over to his parents home to give him his stuff or sort out his bills. I think and he will certainly think that you are using this as an excuse to see him. Seeing him will only set you back. Suppose she is over there when you go? I'm sure you don't want that type of drama. You will absolutely never get over this if you continue to stalk him on line. Throw your phone away if you have to but stop checking on them. Why should you bother to say goodbye when he is the one who broke up with you? He should be the one reaching out to you.
Author Lalocket Posted September 4, 2014 Author Posted September 4, 2014 First, no do not go over to his parents home to give him his stuff or sort out his bills. I think and he will certainly think that you are using this as an excuse to see him. Seeing him will only set you back. Suppose she is over there when you go? I'm sure you don't want that type of drama. You will absolutely never get over this if you continue to stalk him on line. Throw your phone away if you have to but stop checking on them. Why should you bother to say goodbye when he is the one who broke up with you? He should be the one reaching out to you. i know, since i wrote that earlier message i realised it was the worst idea in the world. i am not reaching out to him again, i think it's the realisation of that which makes it so hard. i was so much better yesterday, i dont know how this can happen in 24 hours. i feel about as bad as 24 hrs after breakup. it's hell. i honestly wouldn't wish this on anyone,
Author Lalocket Posted September 4, 2014 Author Posted September 4, 2014 I'd love to believe this but for some reason I can't. I wish I could not care, could move on easily, rather then being in store for what looks like months of agony. i have to believe this..those words are pretty much the only thing that have given me hope that i'll be ok again.
stillafool Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 i know, since i wrote that earlier message i realised it was the worst idea in the world. i am not reaching out to him again, i think it's the realisation of that which makes it so hard. i was so much better yesterday, i dont know how this can happen in 24 hours. i feel about as bad as 24 hrs after breakup. it's hell. i honestly wouldn't wish this on anyone, The pain will come and go. When it comes just flow with it and continue to tell yourself "it is over now and he's with someone else". It will hurt like hell but reality will set in and you will reach the anger stage. At that point will have a change of heart towards him and start to heal.
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