JBlackstone Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 since I've been single, I recently began to notice a Facebook friend of mine, an old classmate from elementary school, is really funny and cute. I guess I just never paid him much attention before when I was in a relationship. anyway since I've kind of had my eye on him we have had some interaction through 'comments' and 'likes'. he practically likes everything I post. I would be interested in meeting up with him but it just seems like such a weird situation. I really don't want to be the one to suggest it but I feel like he won't. it is Facebook after all and it's hard to tell if he has interest or maybe he likes everything people post. should I see how things play out or should I take charge and suggest a meetup? I would prefer that he 'man up' and ask me!
mightycpa Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 What year is it where you are? 18 friggin' 23? How about you "woman up" and ask the man out for a proper meetup? 1
isisisweeping Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 My first suggestion would be to message him directly, say hey let's go get some coffee and catch up! he'll say yes, it's all very easy. I suppose if you really have issues about needing him to ask you could post or say, "Wow, I really want to go see x or do y - hey, anyone want to come with me?" and let him do it but that's really complicated and less assured.
PegNosePete Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 If you really don't want to ask him out them just ask him when he's going to ask you out.
d0nnivain Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 Do you have any other way of contacting him besides FB? If so, ask him to hang out that way rather than on FB. Otherwise, what have you go to lose? Just say hey, wanna go to [such & such place] & catch up next Tuesday?
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