MoleRun Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 Sorry if this is too long a post but I've been getting kind of distraught lately. Basically I've started to go away to school again after taking a few years at home to recover after a slow downward spiral that led to depression and other bad things. I live with other people now which is change since I live in a quiet house with my family at home. Also, I haven't had much of a love life in a couple years so being around people my age is a shock. I've been drinking with the people I live with lately and one of their friends whose a girl always comes around to hang. Problem is last week I ended up hooking up with this girl when we were both pretty drunk. I asked for full blown sex which she rejected for which I feel bad now for asking for. Anyway, she comes around everyday still but we haven't mentioned anything about our hookup. I know that she doesn't relationship and owing to my feelings I know a relationship is not the best thing for me right now. Unfortunately I feel kind of empty about the whole thing because it seems a little bit too casual for me. She doesn't really seem to want to have any one on one talks, only in a group can can we talk. I wouldn't mind getting to know her better as a person but it seems too difficult now. I've never been into the hookup scene so this is kind of new to me, also I've never been so intimate with someone I've known less than a week. Right now I feel vulnerable and am just at the point where it seems I could get sucked back into the feelings of despair that once consumed me. Right now I'm just trying to focus on my school work which I do enjoy but things still don't feel right. What should I do?
CarrieT Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 Invite her on a proper date. Take her to dinner. Open the door for her. Listen to her. Compliment her. Take her home and give her a peck on the cheek and tell her it was a wonderful evening. Call her the next day. Repeat as necessary.
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