Bumblebee91 Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 Dear forumers, I'm in need of some advice regarding my break up. We have broken up several times over the last year, the break up was always iniciated by me, but whenever he begged me to come back I always broke down and gave in. A month ago I broke up with him for the same reasons I had done before. Like always he begged me to come back, said he would change and called me every day to keep up with eachother. This time I didn't fall for him as soon as before, but I did have a feeling I would be giving in to him some time soon. Two weeks ago, like usual, he called me and asked me to call back in the evening. I did, but he didn't pick up or call me back the whole evening. After that I didn't hear from him the whole week. I got suspicious after a friend dropped a few hints that maybe he was seeing someone else. I confronted him about it and it turned out to be true, he has met someone new who is 10 years older and has a child. It seems to me he took the first chance he got to move on. In a very unsensitive way he send me a photo of them together and called me that evening to make sure I knew who she was (but also called me darling?!). I was crushed because I didn't see this coming AT ALL. A week earlier he was begging me to come back. I made a decision to block and delete his number. I blocked him from Facebook as well. The day after, I met up with his ex, she told me he had been cheating on me with her. She told me a lot of other things too, it turned out he had lied to me about a lot of things. It has been a week now since I blocked his number and blocked him from Facebook. At first I was doing well, I felt very angry and couldn't care about him anymore. But now I find that every day is getting worse. I don't feel as angry anymore and I miss him and think about him all day and night. In my mind I know I don't want him back and I only miss the feeling of having someone who loves you. But my heart is aching. I find myself regretting blocking his number, maybe it was too drastic. I want to unblock him and send a text that I'm ready to be civilized. But I don't know if I can, I'm still hurting so much. What do you think I should do? Isn't it childish to cut him out of my life completely? Thanks for you advice!
Hollywood-Tourist Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 If I'm honest, I think you blocked his number to 'forget' about him for the time being, but it has now proved itself to be a mistake & maybe you were too hasty in making that decision. If it makes you feel better, maybe you should unblock his number, text him & tell him you are ready to talk & that you can be civilised. That puts the ball in his court, so if he wants to talk then he will get in touch with you. Hope that helps.
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