frederickkk Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 I have a horrible feeling I will never get over her.
Christophe Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 I understand how you are feeling, I am worried that I will never be able to meet someone like my ex again too. I am doing my best to trust the dozens of people who have told me things WILL get better and I WILL find someone better in time. Trust me I can understand how you are feeling. What is your situation? If you are feeling like this then I would not be surprised if it is similar to mine. Chris
Reels Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 Actually same for now. But even if horrible, you should treat it like random feeling.
True Gent Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 I have a horrible feeling I will never get over her. You will if you allow yourself to. I felt like you, but looking at the whole picture with open eyes does help you see the true perspective. Don't dwell and keep busy, you'll be fine.
CarrieT Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 Newbies, please read Frederickkkk's past posts. This wallowing in self-pity and pining for his Ex has been going on for far too long. Don't feed the troll, please.
me85 Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 I know you said not to reply CarrieT, but I just gotta. First of all Fred, never say never. Secondly, you're going to have to learn how to pick your thoughts just like how you pick out what you're going to wear everyday. I just love that! It's so true. We mustn't be weak! We have to fight, fight, fight!!! Be strong. Have strong, confident outlooks on life. Do you want to die before you really live?? All this time wasted pining over your ex could've been time getting over her by thinking about your future and what you want it to be like. You can make your future however you want it to be and this is what you choose?? Sorrow?? Hopelessness?? Naaa...surely not. At some point you have to be like the rest of us...just plain sick and tired of being sick and tired. lol You have to give yourself a swift kick in the butt. 4
Author frederickkk Posted September 4, 2014 Author Posted September 4, 2014 the problem i have, me85, is that when i met this person, i fell in love instantly. i was too heavily invested - that is, i wanted a life, a future, a family with her. At least, i thought i did. This entire experience has put me off relationships for life. I'm done with them....even when I meet someone new, I couldn't really care about what they do, their interests.... I guess you could say I'm depressed. I've just, well, had enough. I went travelling for 5 months, had a lot of fun, nothing has changed and I don't think it will change. The whole concept of love has really ruined me. I have an opportunity now for a new start...I couldn't really say what that entails exactly. I guess I'm just lost.
me85 Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 (edited) the problem i have, me85, is that when i met this person, i fell in love instantly. i was too heavily invested - that is, i wanted a life, a future, a family with her. At least, i thought i did. This entire experience has put me off relationships for life. I'm done with them....even when I meet someone new, I couldn't really care about what they do, their interests.... I guess you could say I'm depressed. I've just, well, had enough. I went travelling for 5 months, had a lot of fun, nothing has changed and I don't think it will change. The whole concept of love has really ruined me. I have an opportunity now for a new start...I couldn't really say what that entails exactly. I guess I'm just lost. And that's perfectly fine. Heck, I'm lost in every which way right now but I'm going through changes. My spirit is hungry and I'm on a journey trying to find out what it's hungry for. It's all a part growing up. We're always searching for ourselves, what we really want out of life...love...everything. Let this sink into your brain: "Having a broken heart is a good thing, it means we have tried for something." I want my life to change. I want my thoughts to change. For more than 3 years my ex was my everything. My best friend, my lover...the love of my life. The guy I thought was "the one." All of that. He still has the engagement ring he bought for me in case he ever changes his mind about me...do you know that kind of hurt? To be someone's backup plan?? He's been with another girl for more than 9 months. "Exclusive" for 4. I STILL think of him every hour of everyday. We fell in love right away too. I promise I know how hard of a time you're having letting go of someone you love so much. I'm having just as much of a hard time with it myself. Get inspired. Inspire and motivate yourself. Don't make a habit of falling apart. That routine never helped anyone. Edited September 4, 2014 by me85
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