mokymoky Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 One of my friends went on a date and she asked me to go with them because he had a friend that had just gotten back after a long trip, I agreed to come with them (don't know if that had counted as a double date?) So I went out to dinner with him and his friend and my friend then a couple days later we all watched movies together, when they dropped me home after movies the guy had stared at me since he sat next to me on the way and was talking to me. And a couple days after that we all had a party at their place and I ended up spending the night with the guy in his room (ended up making out and such). A couple days after which I gave my friend's "man" my phone number and told him to give it to the guy I had been chilling with. He started texting me (was that out of just being nice or what i dont know?) but we would only text back and forth a couple times a day. he told me he was bad with texting. A week from the party, me and my friend were picked up by them again and ended up spending the night again. What got me was that the guy kept poking me and then started holding my hand but for some reason it was just when we were alone with other guys? When we went to get food the next day he did ask me if I wanted anything and was going to pay for me Now that was saturday when i saw him and i have not texted him or received a text from him since before i stayed over. What I am wondering is if it seems he is looking at me as a romantic interest at all or what? Because it's as if when we are alone we will talk a lot but around others not so much (i get shy) but he does stare my way and holds my hand when his guy friends are around? Any insight? Should I just wait for him to text me or text him? Thanks!~
d0nnivain Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 Have you & him done anything alone together besides make out & sleep? If not, call & arrange a meet with him. If he doesn't come you have your answer. If you do connect, judge his behavior then.
cristalina Posted September 4, 2014 Posted September 4, 2014 Have you & him done anything alone together besides make out & sleep? If not, call & arrange a meet with him. If he doesn't come you have your answer. If you do connect, judge his behavior then. I second this. I get the impression from your description that he's being kind of non-committal. It could be because he's afraid of rejection and nervous with you, or it could be for more nefarious reasons. Either way, you should probably talk to him, and try to meet up. I would avoid becoming intimate until you know each other a little better, and understand his intentions. - Cris
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