herkb Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 Hello, I was browsing the internet looking for some comfort and got to this page. I thought maybe any of you could help me with some advice. I met a guy three months ago. He only had two boyfriends and was betrayed in both relationships, they cheated him and ended up leaving him for another person. When we met, it was hard for him to open up, he was very suspicious and said he wanted to take things very slowly. I agreed to that, so we began to have many dates. They were always incredible, and the connection began to grow. He told me that he was feeling a lot of good things about me, that he missed me when I was not around. He said he really felt that he was involved with me, and I told him I felt exactly the same way about him. That day was magical, it was the first 'I love you' we said to each other, looking into each other's eyes, holding hands, hugging each other. You know, it was dreamy. But... the next day something happened that changed the course of things. A friend of his saw a picture of mine and he told my boy that a while ago he used to chat with me through a mobile app. He showed my boy those chats and everything changed for him from that moment on. He told me it was like I was flirting with his friend, and it was mutual. He knew it was in the past but he felt misplaced. He told me he felt an idiot because he showed me pics of his friend several times and I did not say anything else. The thing is: when he showed me those pictures I told him that his face was familiar to me but I never really knew about who this guy was until he told me all this. I used to talk to many people before meeting him, and it was just that: talk. I can not remember if I ever chatted with his friend, or how many times I did it. I swear I do not! But apparently my boy does not believe me. He closed himself to dialogue, I sent him some messages after this but he didn't answer so I assumed he needed some space. I waited 5 days and I texted him again trying to explain that I had no control over what I remember and what not, that I was truly sorry if I hurt him somehow. I told him I missed him and wanted to work things out with him, talking to each other. He just told me that he was hurt by all this, that he felt dissapointed, and only gave me distant and short answers. I really want to be with him but I do not understand what's wrong and do not know what I can do! I'm very sad about all this, could you give me some advice? Thank you very much for reading this message, everyone!
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