thefilmguy24 Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 Ok I’m not sure if this is the right place to post this but here it goes. I have a question. Before I ask, let me give some background. I’m 32 while my GF is 35. We have an almost 3 year old daughter together and will have been together for 4 years this coming October. I’ve decided that I want to marry this woman who I love deeply with every fiber in my body. I would do anything for her. Lately she has been asking our daughter if she wants a little brother or sister. Now this isn’t a problem, but the thing is we don’t have a very frequent sex life. We have compromised to do a weekend getaway every month to have our “us” time. The other day I asked her if she wanted to have another baby and she told me “no.” Now my question is, if she is asking our daughter those questions and says “no” to me when I ask, what does that mean? Does she want to have another baby? I told her I didn’t want another one at the moment because we don’t have the space(still live at her parents’ house, but we are planning on saving to get a place of our own). She then told me that if we had a babysitter then she would consider it. I’m confused on what she wants or what she is saying. Please help me understand this woman logic. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.
evanescentworld Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 It would be more helpful if you arranged couples counselling and sorted this lack of communication problem with someone professional. If your sex life is infrequent, you couldn't really afford another child, she's asking your daughter about a sibling and is mentioning babysitters - and you can't understand what the heck she's on about, after all the time you've known her - you guys seriously need professional help before the question of procreating even rears its head. It sounds like, to me...
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