Grevensteiner Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 So, I met a girl (19yo, I'm 21yo) 2 months ago, and I got into friendzone. 3 weeks ago I started doing something, but I was being rejected each time I tried to kiss her. Then after a couple of meetings with rejections only, I finally made love with her. But on the next day when we met, she seemed like she didn't care at all, I couldn't even kiss her again. Ok, that's the first part of the story. One thing that pisses me off is that she meets with another dude (200km away), and gets all emotional with him, more than on me. She even talks with him on the phone while being with me, while we're cuddling, while...uh. He was even with her during the weekend, at her house. Also, she kissed a girl while we were at some group meeting, but that was like 2 weeks ago. ------------- Ok, my problem is that I'm not really able to say - "ok, I'm removing her number, fb, and no-contact starts now". I just can't do that, we know each other pretty well, and she still wants to meet like even 3-4 times a week. I also can't really stop thinking about her. Not to mention the hope of something more. What should I do?
CarrieT Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 Move on and date someone else. She's a player and while she let you have some, she likes the chase better. You know she's into someone else, why do you want to spend time with her? You will only get hurt more.
Author Grevensteiner Posted September 2, 2014 Author Posted September 2, 2014 (edited) Simply because I got attached to her, and she keeps telling me he's not important and it's nothing serious. Mix this with her having bad relationship experiences in the past, and I get mixed signals all the time, and can't move on. Edited September 2, 2014 by Grevensteiner
Assasda Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 You are a lapdog, you are her bitch. And looking at the end paragraph, youre willing to stay that way
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