frankvega Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 Ok I have noticed something on whatsapp that has me concerned for a while. I noticed that you can see the last time that person has been online. If you are implementing NC with someone even if you dont text them they can see the last time you used whatsapp and in a way that will remind them of you or vice versa.
mightycpa Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 Stalking is technically not contact, but it isn't healthy either. Is it inadvertent and unavoidable, or is there a way to avoid it? Getting over it is sort of like keeping a room dark in the daytime. You have to cover up all the little places that light can get in. Even a small sliver of daylight looks really bright in an otherwise dark room.
TayTay415 Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 Ok I have noticed something on whatsapp that has me concerned for a while. I noticed that you can see the last time that person has been online. If you are implementing NC with someone even if you dont text them they can see the last time you used whatsapp and in a way that will remind them of you or vice versa. Wouldn't that mean you're breaking NC by looking at this feature, not that they are?
Author frankvega Posted September 2, 2014 Author Posted September 2, 2014 I am not looking or stalking anyone that i have initiated NC with. My concern is that everyone even my mom uses whatsapp and the other day when I didn't pickup someones phone call. my response was i was sleeping but they called BS because they saw me online in whatsapp even though i have not texted or looked at there profile.
Hoosfoos Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 True NC would consist of them being deleted from your phone and whatsapp.
Author frankvega Posted September 2, 2014 Author Posted September 2, 2014 Even if i delete them from whatsapp if they dont delete me they can still see the last time i was on whatapp
David87 Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 Thats not your problem, delete your ex from your phone and be done with it.
TAV Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 Even if i delete them from whatsapp if they dont delete me they can still see the last time i was on whatapp Only if you click on their name can you see that, so stop clicking on their name. Anyway, since one of the new updates you can turn off the 'last time online' thing altogether. You will only see them online if you are staring at their whatsapp account in your phone 24/7 and they do actually come online. And in case you are wondering why I know all this. My ex, who I can't delete from my phone since he is the father of my children, decided to stalk me in WA too and so I've blocked his account (if he wants to reach me he can call or send me a normal text, his msg to me will not be delivered), turned off my status and the 'last time online' thing. So basically he gets nothing from my account there.
PegNosePete Posted September 2, 2014 Posted September 2, 2014 Even if i delete them from whatsapp if they dont delete me they can still see the last time i was on whatapp Why do you care? If you care about this then you're doing NC wrong. You should be doing it for YOU, not for them.
Lalocket Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 yes it is. i tortured myself for about 3 days after BU checking if he was online. he was online constantly and i know he was chatting to another girl. i was obsessed with checking it. then i deleted his number and i feel free. delete it and block them via your privacy settings.
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