Xerxes1986 Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 I've heard from several people that a guy should ask if they can kiss the girl for the first time and from others that you just kinda "know" and go for it. Which one do you guys think is the right way to go about it? And if it is asking...how do you ask?
BoatingBabe Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 You'll know when to go for the kiss...Asking is corny...I think ONE guy in my lifetime ASKED before he kissed me and I was turned off by it.. When she's looking at you in the eyes and your lips and she's smiling...you'll FEEL it...
Merin Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 Hmm.. thinking about it.. I've never had a guy ask me if he could kiss me.. it just happend on it's own. If I had the choice between letting it happen or a guy asking me if he could.. I would want the kiss to happen on it's own without the need for permission.
HotCaliGirl Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 In the past I've had many guys ask first if they could kiss. It always has been a turn-off and oftentimes I've ended up just saying no because it ruined the mood or seemed annoying whereas I would've welcomed the kiss had they just gone for it. It's better than not being asked or kissed though, which sometimes happens if the guy is intimidated by you I guess.
sarah12 Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 I've had a guy say to me, "I'm going to seriously regret it if I dont kiss you before I go, so here goes..." and he kissed me..it was the best kiss I had had in a long time. I've also been kissed on the cheek on a first date and I thought that was sweet.
Hund1976 Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 Start off by hugging her, then look into her eyes and smile, then slowly bring your head towards hers. If she turns away then she doesn't want a kiss.
Author Xerxes1986 Posted March 3, 2005 Author Posted March 3, 2005 Originally posted by Hund1976 Start off by hugging her, then look into her eyes and smile, then slowly bring your head towards hers. If she turns away then she doesn't want a kiss. thats probably the best advice i've heard yet...thx man ill try it
iceisles Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 Originally posted by Hund1976 If she turns away then she doesn't want a kiss. Also, if she quickly undoes her seatbelt and bolts out the passenger side door, she probably doesn't want a kiss. Not that I've experienced that or anything...
Merin Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 Originally posted by iceisles Also, if she quickly undoes her seatbelt and bolts out the passenger side door, she probably doesn't want a kiss. Not that I've experienced that or anything... Ohhhh my God Ice your killin me this morning!
_Saffy_ Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 i met my last bf online, and on our first meet he said "you are beautiful, can i kiss you"............and i froze on the spot. yet later he just went for it and i had nooooooooo resistance that time
EC Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 Also, if she quickly undoes her seatbelt and bolts out the passenger side door, she probably doesn't want a kiss. Not that I've experienced that or anything... Definitely a sure sign she doesnt want a kiss lol I hate when its been a bad date and yet the guy thinks he can get a kiss anyways and as he is pulling up to my driveway he turns off his headlights..( pulease I'm thinking your going to turn them back on in a second) lol and then they pull into my driveway reallllll slow and they park and look over and I'm halfway done taking the seatbelt off and opening the door at the same time. Had a good time peeeaaaaace!! lol I had this one guy say hey you have a little something on your face and when I went to clean it off he said no let me and then he touched my face with his fingers then leaned in and kissed me. Corny I know but it was a really good kiss.
iceisles Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 I don't think a guy should ever ask if he can kiss a girl. That's like saying to your girlfriend, "can I strip you naked and test out my new mattress?" It kind of ruins the mood.
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