Some Dame in Texas Posted September 1, 2014 Posted September 1, 2014 I have a date scheduled for this weekend with a guy I've been seeing for a couple of months. We have not yet had sex, and I'm expecting it to happen at our next meeting. We live 300 miles apart and will meet at a hotel half way. In our last conversation, he said he wanted to get there and check in 30 minutes before me so all I'd have to do is come in and get comfortable. That struck me as odd, but then again, I'll admit I tend to be a worrier. I've done a background check, and everything he told me pans out. No criminal record, lives and works where he says he does, etc. I'm a pretty good judge of people, and he hasn't raised any red flags. Am I worrying too much about his request regarding my arrival? Thanks for any insight you can provide.
WhatYouWantToHear Posted September 1, 2014 Posted September 1, 2014 It's either to layout the roses and candles just right, or to do the same for the tarp and dissection tools. I say its worth the risk. 1
thekid36 Posted September 1, 2014 Posted September 1, 2014 I have a date scheduled for this weekend with a guy I've been seeing for a couple of months. We have not yet had sex, and I'm expecting it to happen at our next meeting. We live 300 miles apart and will meet at a hotel half way. In our last conversation, he said he wanted to get there and check in 30 minutes before me so all I'd have to do is come in and get comfortable. That struck me as odd, but then again, I'll admit I tend to be a worrier. I've done a background check, and everything he told me pans out. No criminal record, lives and works where he says he does, etc. I'm a pretty good judge of people, and he hasn't raised any red flags. Am I worrying too much about his request regarding my arrival? Thanks for any insight you can provide. I think only you can provide your own answer here. It sounds as if you have both met multiple times before. So, chances are good he does not only want you for sex. Meeting where you are does suggest the possibility it might happen this time. What was the original reason for meeting there though? Is it something you both agreed to and discussed? I am one who tends to think that sex is usually best when not planned. This is an individual preference though. Does not mean anything is wrong with having it planned. The gesture to come after him so that you can be comfortable could just revolve around him wanting to be friendly. The key here totally revolves around your comfort. If you are not comfortable, then perhaps you should communicate this to him. The reasons do not really matter if they are yours. If you feel comfortable with him, then perhaps you should go with an open mind and find out what develops.
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