103182 Posted March 2, 2005 Posted March 2, 2005 My boyfriend of 11 months broke up with me because of repeated fighting. This after a week vacation in Aruba that was wonderful. I now realize a lot of it was my anger issues and I have since had a "light bulb" moment and realized what I was doing and called him after a week and told him. He basically doesnt believe it and says he needs time to heal. I asked him if there was hope for us to work this out, he said there is always hope but that I needed to do some work figuring this out and he said he needs time to heal. I am trying to except this and I am working on my issues with a therapist but he wont see me. My problem is I dont want to have false hope and wait for something that may never happen. I did tell him that I love him and I will give him space he seemed to accept this but I have not heard from him for 1 month. Am I waiting for something that wont come? Since he doesnt want to talk to me and I want to give him time. My question how much time is reasonable? I am lost as what to do.
strange love Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 Right ye old "anger issues" Ok not sure wheter your female or not . Im assuming you are. In that case women can get away with lots more pestering then men can. In regards to not contacting him.. this can range from a few days. A few weeks. A few months. Few years (?) Its up to you how long you wish to wait it out.
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