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Is 'I don't feel like shopping' equal to 'I don't feel like sex'?


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A woman not wanting sex isn't necessarily a bad sign in a relationship, it depends on the dynamics of that relationship and whether sex is an important component to either partner.

 

If both partners are happy with the level of intimacy they share then there isn't a problem. :)

 

Its only when the level of intimacy is insufficient / over-demanding for one or the other of the partners (especially when the partners are no longer able to compromise) that it becomes a "bad sign" in the relationship.

 

A woman not wanting to have sex for a couple of weeks is a sign that something is very wrong in the relationship.

 

In this situation, the OP obviously wants to have sex with her, so he's not happy with the level of intimacy.

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Sounds like something a five year old would do to try to get their way. Thing is she can always get sex and go shopping, without you.

 

And if you have to blackmail someone to get sex, why is it worth anything to you? You'd be just as happy with a hooker or hookup. You just made it abundantly clear her only value to you is sex and you don't care whether she feels like it or not. No wonder she's cooling off on you.

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Sounds like something a five year old would do to try to get their way. Thing is she can always get sex and go shopping, without you.

 

And if you have to blackmail someone to get sex, why is it worth anything to you? You'd be just as happy with a hooker or hookup. You just made it abundantly clear her only value to you is sex and you don't care whether she feels like it or not. No wonder she's cooling off on you.

 

Would you stay with a girlfriend who would never have sex with you?

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