heartisbreaking Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 So there is a man I think likes me and I know I like him. We have just been talking in messages. There have been obstacles to us like age, divorce, coworkers. I keep thinking of things I should have done differently. The biggest thing is that I sent him a message that I felt was explaining how I viewed sex relations as emotional. I also contradicted his views on soulmates and said I thought it was more about choosing to fall in love than destiny. His response made me upset but I may have just misread it and over reacted. My words in return may have been a bit too harsh. I left a message apologizing and got no response. He didn't speak to me at work nor did I speak to him. At the end of the week I sent him a message asking if he was angry and if I should leave him alone. Still no response. I know I am not going to keep chasing him. I do know that is a bad idea. What I don't know is what to do now? I wasn't sure anything was going to happen before I said things I regret. I don't want to get over it but I know I can't beg someone to want me. If he isn't responding and I leave him alone will he start to miss me or get over me? Will he try to contact me? He seems to avoid conflict at all cost. There might just be too many barriers that he isn't willing to overcome. I keep replaying everything I should have said differently and done differently over the last few months. It was hard enough wondering if it could become something when he was responding to me. Now I have little hope at all. So my heart hurts.
BetrayedH Posted September 1, 2014 Posted September 1, 2014 You sound a little too desperate and frankly, he sounds like a jerk if he can't respectfully reply to you. Let this one go.
sid3 Posted September 1, 2014 Posted September 1, 2014 You sound a little too desperate and frankly, he sounds like a jerk if he can't respectfully reply to you. Let this one go. Agreed. And consider yourself lucky you dodged a bullet.
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