louiix Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 There is this girl I like. We've been friends for 3 months. She told me I wasn't her type which kind of destabilised our friendship and made things a bit awkward. After cutting my loses , I sent her a bouquet of flowers with a note saying " I'm sorry I didn't understand your point of view. I hope we can continue to be friends " . I know she liked the flowers because she put it all across her Facebook and Instagram. Now , she sent me a text this morning saying " we need to talk face to face " she started texting me random aswell eg '' I just got home '' I'm confused because she insisted on being just friends even though we've had sex once which I've agreed upon. Why does she need to talk face to face? And what do you reckon she going to say? It couldn't be any worse than " let's be friends or I'm not interested " which she has already said as in " you are not my type " HELP
SidneyS Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 Normally, cutting losses would mean that you break up contact. Friendships typically do not work if there was intimacy involved despite what most ppl will say these days. Still, there are some contradictions in this scenario so you might give it a shot. But be aware that you might be dumped again and this time it could be harder of the emotional involvement on your side rises. Personally I would end the contact. The statement "not my type" would be on my mind every single minute I spend with her.
sid3 Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 I doubt she changed her mind. I'm guessing she feels somewhat guilty/ uneasy over receiving the flowers.
Mister Zen Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 It sounds like game playing to me. From my experience women (people) are rarely confused about who they like and who they don't. You either like someone or you don't. However, things get complicated when you don't like someone, but you still like something they offer you (sex, attention, money, etc.) Also.. some women like to "collect men" and keep several of them on an emotional/sexual leash chasing after her to boost her ego. I've seen many cases where a woman doesn't like a man, but she likes the attention she gets from him. My advice is don't allow yourself to be used/manipulated. One-sided relationships are always toxic and rarely end well from my experience. This is the main reason I never do the "friend zone". Its all or nothing. You need to be on the same page or the relationship won't be healthy.
Assasda Posted September 1, 2014 Posted September 1, 2014 OP she's going to tell you to leave her alone forever. hahaha youre done. YOu watch too many movies man. Lets see, you told her that you like her or something - which you omitted here. Then she said youre not her type. Then you send her some flowers. Move on OP. Please
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