jj723 Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 I've been with my boyfriend (I'll call him G) now for two years, we've had great times and rocky times, but overall things are great. Now here's the thing, he has a friend of his that I'm wary about. They met through work and had a common interest in music and became friends, and have been since. He's known her longer than myself. Anyway, I never used to have wariness towards her until recently. This girl has a boyfriend and mentions how much she cares for him and whatnot, the problem in their relationship is distance, she's stated. Now she's been texting G more often, and even admitted to texting him while she's been on outings with her boyfriend. Most recently a group of friends, including G and this girl all went out for a night of drinking I couldn't go because of work. G mentioned to me the next day that she came up to him and questioned why he never asked her out when she was single a few years ago. He shrugged his shoulders and said she was too young for him (10 year age difference). She then said she enjoyed their friendship and wouldn't want to change any of it, but that he needs to take more chances in life. Maybe I'm overthinking things, but why would she ask him these questions? G has been honest with me, even offered to show me texts and he reassures me that nothing is between them. I only began questioning it recently, but maybe I should drop it. I love him and trust him, and she's given me no doubt about anything when I've seen her out as well. It's only the texts and that recent comment that made me question.
Gloria25 Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 Ummm, Well, I'm glad "G" is keeping you informed about this chick and her advances... But I got a question for you....What did "G" tell her when she mentioned that he should 'take some more risks in life'? Cuz, at the end of the day, it's up to "G" to handle this. You can't stop women from approaching your man, cuz there's always gonna be someone prettier, smarter, hotter, sexier, etc. than you (and even him). What counts is whether or not he (or you) are mature enough to not get trapped into the 'grass is greener' syndrome.
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