Nobelium Posted August 30, 2014 Posted August 30, 2014 So, this is driving me nuts! Here we go: I want a woman for a long-term relationship, but no girls seem to be interested on me. And some actually are affraid of me! Example: If i see a girl on the street, and i try to say hello, she will either ignore me completely or look straight to the ground.... It doesn't matter how i look or how i behave. It's always the same. I tried everything under my power to solve this. They say i have to wait for the right girl... Well, i've been waiting for 3 years. She never appeared. I tried facebook dating... it doesn't work either... The girl will start ignoring my messages, or will come up with excuses, after a few minutes of conversation. "Oh, i have to go study...Talk to you later." And NEVER talks to me again. What shoud i do?
preraph Posted August 30, 2014 Posted August 30, 2014 You need to take part in classes or group activities where you see the same people over and over again for some extended period of time and that gives someone a chance to get used to you and stop being afraid and it's more natural to just talk to them in that situation. I give you kudos for saying hi to women on the street, all the same. I keep saying on here, though, don't just smile and say hi to the women you are attracted to but all women and men too so that you appear to be a friendly approachable guy who isn't just trying to separate your prey from the herd. 1
Author Nobelium Posted August 31, 2014 Author Posted August 31, 2014 You need to take part in classes or group activities where you see the same people over and over again for some extended period of time and that gives someone a chance to get used to you and stop being afraid and it's more natural to just talk to them in that situation. I give you kudos for saying hi to women on the street, all the same. I keep saying on here, though, don't just smile and say hi to the women you are attracted to but all women and men too so that you appear to be a friendly approachable guy who isn't just trying to separate your prey from the herd. I'll do this. Thank you.
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