Tik Posted August 30, 2014 Posted August 30, 2014 I went through a string of bad relationships, flings or things that did not work out in the past. Heck, I don't think I've had a healthy relationship that has lasted over half a year. My latest did not even get off the ground before I got blasted with the dreaded 'I like you... But not in that way'. It kick started a change in me as I self reflected my life and realised I'm not all that I think I am cracked up to be. I promised myself I will never be who I was ever again. Hard work at the gym, cutting back on junk and eating right, dressing sharp with my own style while working hard at my career and I'm starting to feel really good. By no means I'm not there yet but people are noticing; particularly woman. I locked eyes on one that I could tell was mentally undressing me the other day. At parties, I've now got the confidence and ability to pull. Yet girls just don't appeal to me as of late. In my phone sits from the last month, 5 new numbers of girls I could hit up and should be dating yet I just don't feel like it. On a side note, I am so engrossed in my goals and ambitions it drains a lot out of me. But I do want to date though. I do want a relationship. Someone want to analyse me as of late?
SummerLuvR Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 When you want it enough you will go for it again. You seem too busy with your life right now. You just don't really want a relationship right now. When it happens, it will happen. ...just my thoughts....
Gloria25 Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 You're at an age where dating shouldn't be taken too seriously... Kudos on making and sticking to your priorities... Take it easy, do group things, take advantage of this time to form friendships with people and women and get to figure out what you want in a woman - so, when you are ready to date seriously and are not so busy, you can easily pick and relate to women. BTW, a lot of girls in your age range are flakes...don't take whether or not they are interested in you so seriously.
Assasda Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 I went through a string of bad relationships, flings or things that did not work out in the past. Heck, I don't think I've had a healthy relationship that has lasted over half a year. My latest did not even get off the ground before I got blasted with the dreaded 'I like you... But not in that way'. It kick started a change in me as I self reflected my life and realised I'm not all that I think I am cracked up to be. I promised myself I will never be who I was ever again. Hard work at the gym, cutting back on junk and eating right, dressing sharp with my own style while working hard at my career and I'm starting to feel really good. By no means I'm not there yet but people are noticing; particularly woman. I locked eyes on one that I could tell was mentally undressing me the other day. At parties, I've now got the confidence and ability to pull. Yet girls just don't appeal to me as of late. In my phone sits from the last month, 5 new numbers of girls I could hit up and should be dating yet I just don't feel like it. On a side note, I am so engrossed in my goals and ambitions it drains a lot out of me. But I do want to date though. I do want a relationship. Someone want to analyse me as of late? This is what you should doing, keep doing this. When youre comfortable with yourself your attraction is sky high. So keep at it, and it will happen. This sounds completely normal
frankvega Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 Start going to nightclubs and having one night stands, popping bottles in the vip, and wearing salvatore ferragamos, You will have so much mojo you will not know what to do with it. That is how i got mine after being separated for 1 year out of a 9 year marriage with 2 kids. I am 30 by the way.
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