Rexxy Posted August 30, 2014 Posted August 30, 2014 I asked this girl out on tuesday for a date on saturday, she said yes and continued talking to me during the week. I messaged her last night (friday night in Australia) saying how we'll get there and stuff like that. She was working so she messaged me saying "Ill message you after work" now this was last night. So now its saturday around 10am and she hadnt sent me anything so I messaged her saying "Did you still want to go?", this was on facebook and she has logged in multiple times but the message hasn't been seen. She hasn't replied to that and its now 1:34pm. Should I text her saying "Look im not been pushy but did you still want to go to go to **** today because I have other things i could be doing" Something along those lines.
HappyLove Posted August 30, 2014 Posted August 30, 2014 I'd make other plans. Whether she wants to go or not she should have the decency to follow up. I wouldn't even ask her anymore about it. I'd move on to someone worth my time. If she contacts you later saying how she wants to or wanted to go I'd say oh you never responded so I made other plans. 1
Assasda Posted August 30, 2014 Posted August 30, 2014 OP dont message her anymore. Leave her alone. she'll message you if she wants to
Jet8419 Posted August 30, 2014 Posted August 30, 2014 If you trust my twin instincts with her, I say text her again, she will not mind (too late by the time u read this anyway cos it's already 9pm Saturday now in Australia). Reasons being: 1. She worked late last night, so she either was too tired or thought it might be too late to text you. 2. She then completely forgot about your text this morning and got busy with whatever she's occupied with. 3. She possibly wasn't aware you sent her another message on FB depending on which mobile phone she uses and her app notification settings. The answer you are likely to get from her is "I'm so sorry I got stuck with work, can we do tomorrow or next weekend (or whatever other time she offers)." If she's really my twin, she would be more than happy you messaged her the third time. Good luck!
Poppygoodwill Posted August 30, 2014 Posted August 30, 2014 If it was important enough to her, she wouldn't have forgotten or been too tired to text you back. It takes two to tango. YOu've done your part, now she has to do hers. I would go quiet on her. Let her come to you. If she doesn't, then she was never really interested. And if she's one of those chicks who thinks the guy should chase her while she acts like a beotch, then you don't want her anyhow.
Author Rexxy Posted August 31, 2014 Author Posted August 31, 2014 If you trust my twin instincts with her, I say text her again, she will not mind (too late by the time u read this anyway cos it's already 9pm Saturday now in Australia). Reasons being: 1. She worked late last night, so she either was too tired or thought it might be too late to text you. 2. She then completely forgot about your text this morning and got busy with whatever she's occupied with. 3. She possibly wasn't aware you sent her another message on FB depending on which mobile phone she uses and her app notification settings. The answer you are likely to get from her is "I'm so sorry I got stuck with work, can we do tomorrow or next weekend (or whatever other time she offers)." If she's really my twin, she would be more than happy you messaged her the third time. Good luck! Yeah I ended up texting her and she replied with "Hey sorry! I ended up working till 12 last night and now I'm at work till 3 today sorry...I totally forgot to text you sorry" No mention of another day or time but i do see her on monday because of uni. What do you think?
Jet8419 Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 Yeah I ended up texting her and she replied with "Hey sorry! I ended up working till 12 last night and now I'm at work till 3 today sorry...I totally forgot to text you sorry" No mention of another day or time but i do see her on monday because of uni. What do you think? Hahaha bingo! I'm spot on again )) She definitely likes you! She's just waiting for you to suggest another date! And yes she is genuinely sorry she forgot about your text cos of work, it really isn't an excuse just to flake on you. I think you should just ask me to predict her answers - I'm definitely her twin brain
HappyLove Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 Yeah I ended up texting her and she replied with "Hey sorry! I ended up working till 12 last night and now I'm at work till 3 today sorry...I totally forgot to text you sorry" No mention of another day or time but i do see her on monday because of uni. What do you think? OP, do you really think that if you were Brad Pitt she would "forget" to text you? Meanjng if she was truly interested would she forget a 2 second text or follow up for a date? It's BS, she never even texted you back she just responded to ANOTHER text from you. I say go after someone who's interested in you who also puts in some type of effort!
freebird31 Posted August 31, 2014 Posted August 31, 2014 I think u should give her the benefit of the doubt this time, the first time. It's when you start to see a pattern you will KNOW you need to reevaluate taking it further.
Author Rexxy Posted September 3, 2014 Author Posted September 3, 2014 Hahaha bingo! I'm spot on again )) She definitely likes you! She's just waiting for you to suggest another date! And yes she is genuinely sorry she forgot about your text cos of work, it really isn't an excuse just to flake on you. I think you should just ask me to predict her answers - I'm definitely her twin brain So after that weekend and a few days later without any contact with her she messages me with this: "hey i meant to talk to you yesterday but i didn't end up going to uni.. i just want to say sorry for pretty much blowing you off last weekend" And I just replied with: "thats ok, I'll give you a one-off pass haha" What do you make of that???
Jet8419 Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 So after that weekend and a few days later without any contact with her she messages me with this: "hey i meant to talk to you yesterday but i didn't end up going to uni.. i just want to say sorry for pretty much blowing you off last weekend" And I just replied with: "thats ok, I'll give you a one-off pass haha" What do you make of that??? She likes you, I'm 100% sure of that. She's genuinely sorry and is hoping you would ask her out again to make up for that missed date cos she's too shy to ask you out directly. She will not reject your invite for sure. The fact that she messaged you after few days of no contact means she has been thinking about you and is afraid you will ignore her. Why do I say that? Cos once again she is doing exactly what I've done before to a guy I liked (not the flaking part but the messaging part). So trust my answers! You have seen for yourself I've been spot on with all my predictions so far!!
HappyLove Posted September 3, 2014 Posted September 3, 2014 So after that weekend and a few days later without any contact with her she messages me with this: "hey i meant to talk to you yesterday but i didn't end up going to uni.. i just want to say sorry for pretty much blowing you off last weekend" And I just replied with: "thats ok, I'll give you a one-off pass haha" What do you make of that??? Ignore above post! She DOES NOT like you that way. She blew you off and is guilty about it so she wanted to apologize. Like I said before find someone worth your time. Find someone who doesn't blow you off! Someone who doesn't "forget" to respond back to you! Don't let this girl walk all over you. You deserve better. You deserve someone who's putting in as much effort as you are!
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