Author slimmontana Posted September 1, 2014 Author Posted September 1, 2014 Its just hard for me to fathom how one can fall in and out of love so quickly..with little to no regard with the destruction she left behind. If she was feeling some kind of way she should have talked to me. None of this distancing stuff..come talk to me see if we can work things out!! I dont know what came over me tonight but I am very angry...Just playing back a lot of the hurtful things she said to me last week. Then to text me yesterday..."Hey are you doing Ok?...Smh...Its like somebody who shot you going to the emergency room to check on your wound
mtnbiker3000 Posted September 1, 2014 Posted September 1, 2014 Chances are she never was 'in love' with you the same way you were with her. You were on different pages. This is what I have realized about my ex as well. You were much more invested than she. And, you are suffering much more as a result. 2
Author slimmontana Posted September 1, 2014 Author Posted September 1, 2014 Chances are she never was 'in love' with you the same way you were with her. You were on different pages. This is what I have realized about my ex as well. You were much more invested than she. And, you are suffering much more as a result. She said she wanted to marry me though...how can it all change for no apparent reason? Thats what I cant wrap my head around. In order for me to "just fall out of love" with somebody something has to happen. A pattern of fights cheating disrespectful behavior. None of that stuff remotely happened in our relationship. Before all of this she was very interested in spending time with me. I cant risk something like this happening to me again. My whole life is at a standstill. Im overdosing on relationship blogs trying to find asnwers.
mtnbiker3000 Posted September 1, 2014 Posted September 1, 2014 Even though she was saying these things (to keep up an appearance) she was checking out of the RS long before actually dumping you. She received plenty of support from her friends and family and thought it through long and hard. Women don't dump out of the blue. May have seemed that way to you (and me), but it just doesn't work that way. And all of the BS about marriage, etc she's been feeding you as of late is just that. BS!!
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