Is this going to be more of a date or more of not? (Girl from the past)

[drg2365]

Ok so there was this girl who I sort of dated my last semester of college. We hit it off great, had mature conversations, went on a few dates, I never really made 'the move' but it did touch her, hold her hand. Well the last time I saw this girl was about 9 months ago, we wished each other good bye, I graduated and immediately moved away. It was sort of sad for both of us I felt.

 

A few weeks later I was texting her asking how her new semester started a and the convo kept going and after a little liquid courage I told her that I really enjoyed our time together and I really started to like you for you, that she I thought she was beautiful inside and out and I hope classes to great. She responded very positively and said that was one of the nicest thing anyone ever said to her and that I was one of the sweetest guys she ever met. We wished each other well again, and haven't spoken since.

 

Until now lol, flash forward 8-9 months and I unexpectedly moves back to where we lived. After a few weeks and some random occurrences I started to think about her, and I just said F-it and hit her up. And she responded right away very positively.

 

I asked her to lunch,even if just to catch up. The next morning she said she was free on Saturday. And I picked out a place and time and she that would be great.

 

What's about to happen? I was so surprised she even texted back. I would presume it's not going to amount to much, but on the same token it's been a long while since we have spoken or seen each other. Given our final exchange, she knows I had feelings for her, and she accepted straight away.

 

Thoughts, advice, guesses? Thanks as always for reading and helping

[smackie9]

After lunch when you go your separate ways ask her out on a date. It's pretty simple.

[slizl]

Not to be rude, but you never "sort of dated" and she sees you as a friend.

[drg2365]

Not to be rude, but you never "sort of dated" and she sees you as a friend.

 

I more meant we did go on 'dates' and obviously had a mutual interest in each other. But Not like a on/again off again fling or fwb you are correct.

 

Im just surprised I got a yes to go out alone together, after completely randomly hitting her up after not hearing from each other for 8+ months, given what the last thing we talked about. I totally expected a no response, she didn't owe me one or She didn't want to/has other people - all totally fair.

 

Is it wrong or creepy to even mention something like a date (with specifics - if it goes well)?? To even think about it? To even think she may be wanting me to ask?

 

Thanks for the replies

[smackie9]

You are only human....you have an interest in her ask her out on a date. You are an adult act like one, you are not 12. People get asked out on dates everyday.

[Assasda]

What you do is you have fun with her man.

Thats what you do, and just let the fun take over

Nothing more