guest Posted March 2, 2005 Posted March 2, 2005 i dated a guy for a couple months and things were going great. We were so into each other. But one day we were talking about where our relationship was going and he told me he didn't think we should keep dating because a relationship wasn't what he wanted at the time. That was about 1 1/2 to 2 months ago. I stopped talking to him and tried to move on but now he's back in the picture. He keeps wanting to spend time with me. And of course since I still like him I agree to. We spend about 3 times a week together. When I do spend time with him he tries to make phsyical contact (isn't that a sign a guy is interested in a girl?), we'll have dinner, he'll take me to "date spots", etc. So I don't know what to think. I try not to have any expections but it's hard not to hope that he likes me. What do you guys think? Would a guy want to spend time with me if he didn't like me?
Lil Honey Posted March 3, 2005 Posted March 3, 2005 relationship wasn't what he wanted at the time. That was about 1 1/2 to 2 months ago. What happened in his life that he suddenly decided that he now wants a relationship? Probably nothing (or another girl wouldn't put out), so I would stick with his original feeling of not wanting a relationship. Would a guy want to spend time with me if he didn't like me? Some guys do spend time with a girl because they like her. Other guys spend time with a girl to get in her pants. he tries to make phsyical contact If he doesn't want a relationship, yet tries to get physical then I would say that he simply wants you for sex.
clynn Posted March 5, 2005 Posted March 5, 2005 Oh well. I'd say just keeping hanging out but hold out on the S-e-X until he agrees he wants a relationship, if he ever does.
ziggue Posted March 5, 2005 Posted March 5, 2005 Originally posted by clynn I'd say just keeping hanging out but hold out on the S-e-X until he agrees he wants a relationship. That might back fire on you. He might agree to get you to sleep with him and then not call you or be sleeping with someone else at the same time. Agree with everyone else he just wants a friends with benefits relationship. Guys usually do when they are in that not sure about a relationship stage. He wants to keep you around while he is looking around.
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