ThorntonMelon Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Sagw - I'm going to pile on. You're out of your mind right now with grief and agony. You're not seeing this clearly and until you do, you need to just chill out. Focus on 60 days no contact. 1 at a time. See how you feel after that.
Author Sagw Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 I would have to say that YOU are her biggest problem right now. She has told you in the clearest terms to leave her alone, and you won't. Here is the truth: You're trying to dig your way out of this hole. But the more you dig, the deeper the hole gets. You will never, ever, ever be back with this girl again. Never. She has seen a side of you that she wants no part of, and every time she thinks about you, this is what she will remember. Everytime she says to leave her alone, while we were in a relationship, I would let things air out for a couple days and it was al good after that. She's just like that. Like she'll get really mad about something and attempt to cut me out, but this time i think it's the fact that she's taking way to long to come back or not coming back at all that is driving me nuts. To be honest, i am trying to dig myself out. She knows now that i will keep contacting her and just recently she texted me some b.s. and i didn't reply and even on tumblr i act like i don't care when she starts drama because i respect myself too much. I have left it at that and hopefully she see that I'm done with this b.s. and i don't need her.
Author Sagw Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 Sagw - I'm going to pile on. You're out of your mind right now with grief and agony. You're not seeing this clearly and until you do, you need to just chill out. Focus on 60 days no contact. 1 at a time. See how you feel after that. You're absolutely right. For the past 2 days, i dream about her. When i wake up i feel so depressed and sometimes cry. I feel like a bi***, but it happens. The problem is, when i try to do that, i miss her and the only thing i think about is; "okay, in 2 weeks I'm going to contact her and try to work things out slowly." It's so hard to think about moving on, all i think about it getting back together.
Author Sagw Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 Sagw, I gave you my opinion on "her problem" in posts 17, 19, and 21 above. If you want a more detailed explanation, I suggest you read my post in Rebel's Thread. It sounds like you've been dating Rebel's exGF. It actually sounds like her, but she hasn't changed her mind at all yet.
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