Making it Work again?

[CarterBeauford5]

Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 weeks ago. We had a 2 year relationship. She broke up with my because my drinking got way out of hand, I was calling her 3 times a week yelling and screaming at her about random bull crap. She said she couldn't handle it. One minute I'm good to her, the next I'm screaming at her over the phone.

 

Anyways, we broke up, and the next day she called me asking if we should try again. I told her we should talk time apart before we make such a decision. We took time apart. Our mutual best friend "Jake" tried to help, he called her and told her to give me another shot. She called me, told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to try again. The next day she called me saying, "I think we should try to work things out." I told her we should take it slow before we just hop in the relationship, she agreed. There was an instance where I asked her if we should get back in the relationship, and she said "I don't know."

 

All of my phone calls with her during this time were limited, I'd call, tell her the plan, and she'd accept.

She would always call me the day before and before the date to confirm the date was going to happen.

I did notice, the night before the third date, we had a nice long talk over the phone, not about the relationship, and that seemed to make her more attracted on the third date, she was much more physical.

 

We've been on 3 dates in the past 2 weeks.

First date was restaurant, than she begged me to see a movie with her.

Second date was an Eminem concert, after the concert we did some four play in the back seat, but we agreed no sex unless we get back together.

Third Date I took her and her sister bowling, and out the dinner. She was all over me the whole day, nibbling my arms, holding me, kissing. She brought up marriage a couple times [we are actually considering marriage].

 

The next day she didn't call me so I called her at night, she called me back, we talked for 40 mins, she was laughing at every joke I made, and invited me to the beach on Monday. We talked about what made us like each other when we first met, it went well. Than she told me she likes me. I told her I like her too, and told her that we just need to take things slow and see what happens. She agrees.

 

Now, I know she likes me, she's into me. But to make her my girlfriend again seems like it's going to be a little bit of a challenge.

Allot of people tell me not to talk on the phone with her for that long, but honestly, when we first met, that's how it was, she said she loved talking to me at night. But people are saying "That's not a challenge."

 

Anyways, how would you guys approach this case, making her my girlfriend again. We already are making plans for the future "movies we want to see, Roller Coaster Parks, Festivals, jokes of marriage."

I wish she would initiate phone calls more too. Anyways, what do ya'll think?

 

Extra Tidbits: I noticed during the phone calls, I would try to end the conversation and she would keep trying to keep me on the line. Also, she didn't like that there are 2 girls she knows that like me, she mentioned that. We did flirt on the phone, we talked about how good she is at sex. She was open to sexual talk.

Edited August 28, 2014 by CarterBeauford5