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Do I follow my feelings Or What My Friends Say?


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I have a friend I have come to really like. I cant really tell if she likes me or not. Im not entirely sure she does, shes used the old "i only see you as a friend" line. However, a good 6 friends (of mine, not her friends) have seen us together and say she is very flirty with me. They say I should tell her how I feel even though she has a boyfriend. Should I follow my feelings on the subject or go with my other friends "female intuition" (their words :) ) and accept that she is actually interested in me too?

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she has a boyfriend and she has told you that she only see's you as a friend.

 

if you wanna lose that friendship........go ahead and tell her.

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They say I should tell her how I feel even though she has a boyfriend.

 

No you shouldn't.

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Sorta what I was thinking. But if really did know she liked me, shud that make any difference?

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no, not while she is with someone else.

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Let her give her relationship a fair chance.

 

How would you feel if some dude did the same thing if you two were in a relationship? Not cool, right?

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good points, its just tough watching them together. Thanks for the help :)

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well firstly: She Hasa BF, already!

 

if you want to tell her your feelings, wait until things with her and bf start to go bad.

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If she has a boyfriend, don't tell her. If she is very flirty with you AND has a boyfriend, I would move on. That is a huge red flag.

 

How would you feel if she were dating you and was flirty with some guy she was "just friends" with?

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