Dziggy55 Posted August 28, 2014 Posted August 28, 2014 I'll start by saying that I was on here months ago when I was struggling with a break up with my girlfriend. We ended getting back together in February and things were absolutely perfect. We fell in love with each other all over again and we couldn't have been happier with each other. We saw each other just about every day and our summer was just pure bliss with each other. So when last Wednesday night came, it was no surprise that the tears were flowing from both of us as I was leaving to start college the next morning. When I got there, we still texted each other almost constantly and skyped when we could. I thought that we were going to be alright. She left for college the day after me and still things seemed fine all through the weekend. When classes started on Monday, our texting was limited to a good morning, good luck, and an I love you from each of us in the morning which I was expecting due to the fact that we had class and had to focus. However when the evening came the communication was still very limited. The next day, it got even worse and when I did receive the infrequent text from her it was almost always one worded (mhm, yes, no, nah, etc.) I also started realizing that she just stopped using terms of endearment and stopped calling me by my nicknames she gave me. Also we had been counting the days down to when we would see each other again after I left last Thursday (our plan was to go home together for the holiday this weekend, something she was very excited for) but when I asked if she was coming on Friday she told me that she didn't know yet. Lastly she only says I love you when I say it first. What I do know from her in our limited talks is that she has made several new friends that she likes and has been hanging out with them quite often. Also she also has been telling me that she has been having trouble eating lately. Other than that I don't really know anything about what she has been up to. I wouldn't consider this a LDR. Our colleges are only 20 minutes apart however she has a car and I don't so I can't go see her whenever I want. I just don't know what to think. I don't see how someone's feelings could just change that quick but I don't know what else to think. Anyone have any advice? It would be greatly appreciated.
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