Hot single professor?

[veganpilot]

For another few months.

[MoreCoffee]

Plenty of time to build that tension that can be oh so sweet when fulfilled.

 

Unless it's a Veruca Salt urge.

[NYC-BigKat]

Firstly I have no idea why I am so attracted to professors, but I have learnt that swaying someone off their vows is a restricted airspace for me even with clearance so to say. But the flight school regulations do not forbid student-professor relationships last time I checked, but strongly discouraged it.

 

Recently, being a bachelorette, I have met some students from both genders that may be a good prospect for having a relationship with, but what caught my interest the most was my aviation professor. He is tall, blond and very cute. He is also an excellent professor in his mid-twenties. Since he is a flight instructor, I have heard from his students that he is definately single and from his Facebook page, there were no photos with him and any women. Also, he does not possess a wedding band

 

I have been suspicious since the first class that he may reciprocate my feelings. Some signs that have caught my attention was that:

1. He was walking around the students, helping them out one by one. It wasn't until he got to me that he started stuttering and fumbling over his words. However with the other students his speech was confident and fluent

2. After class when I talked to my friend about employing the grumpiest flight instructor that would turn out the best, the professor cut into the conversation to join us.

3. I sit across from my professor and when he was explaining the lecture slides, heenoticed I was concentrating intently on him and his face started to go red.

4. Yesterday in class, he was staring at me when he thought I wasn't noticing, such as when I put my head down the desk to do work. He immediately averted his gaze when I caught him staring. When he was explaining crosswind components on the white board, he continually looked in my direction. Later, he was staring at me when the class was at work, but when I caught him staring he did not look away this time. And when I looked up again he was still staring.

5. After making a joke in class, he looks to see if I was laughing as well.

6. When students handed in their assignments, his tone was confident and casual. But when he got to me, he thanked me in a significantly softer and quieter tone.

7. His body was facing me the entire time I was in that class in a wide venue.

 

The class has noticed his attractiveness and the girls are all over him, as far as asking him for coffee or wearing provocative clothing as well as flirting in which he politely refused all. I do none of the above but thank him for his time teaching us and making conversations about crash accidents od flying. But what do you think?

 

Um...I just don't know u know . Why is there so much flirting going on in work places & everyone wants to just date & be horny a lot? What happens to just coming to work to just work? Or just to learn & nothing else?

[veganpilot]

Um...I just don't know u know . Why is there so much flirting going on in work places & everyone wants to just date & be horny a lot? What happens to just coming to work to just work? Or just to learn & nothing else?

 

I don't plan on doing anything sexual with him and neither does he. Maybe go flying, shopping, holding hands and traveling.

[ExpatInItaly]

I don't plan on doing anything sexual with him and neither does he. Maybe go flying, shopping, holding hands and traveling.

 

Just out of curiosity, what ever happened with the previous professor you were lusting after?

[Buck Turgidson]

I'm a flight instructor. There's no real imbalance of power between a flight instructor and a student pilot, any more than there is between a tennis instructor and a tennis student, unless this is some kind of intensive academy. I don't think anyone would be cautioning you against banging your tennis teacher, and I see no reason to caution you against banging your flight instructor. Except one, which is that you seem to be in a class with other students, and you don't want to make the class unfair for them.

 

Flight training is pass/fail, either you get your license at the end of it or you don't, and your primary instructor doesn't even get to make that choice, since FAA regs prohibit a student's instructor from giving you your flight test. He's probably not even a designated examiner. So he's not the one who is going to be issuing your pilot's license or anything. What power does he have, exactly? None, really. He's just teaching you how to fly. And that's sexy. So go for it.

[veganpilot]

You guys think I have a chance o.O ? Wow.

And as for my previous professor, I finished his class and moved on.

[veganpilot]

I have a modeling scholarship and told countless of times by both genders that I am attractive.

[Blade96]

Firstly I have no idea why I am so attracted to professors

 

Really? You REALLY don't know how profs/teachers/instructors can be sexy?

 

I had a really great mentorship with both of my Russian language professors at university, and although I was never attracted to them (one was just 7 years older than me and so at times because we got along so well he was sort of like an older brother-mentor to me, although the rest of girls in my class were attracted to him but for me he was like the older brother-mentor) and the other was in his 40's and I was in my 20's (yes I dated much older guys but I was not attracted to any of my professors except on a mentorship/brother/father-mentor level)

 

But I see why profs can be attractive. They're older, they're intelligent, if you're interested in the same subject they teach you then have things in common so THAT'S attractive to some people,they're (usually) more mature than many of 23 year old students, they're deep and intellectual, and they know a lot of things and they teach you. Really, that can be quite sexy. So while I never fell for a professor or my former karate teachers (it was a senpai I dated once, and that's a senior student, not a sensei, teacher) or anything like that, I do see why some people do fall for them.

 

It's - not - something - I would recommend, dating your instructor, unless you're finished the course and don't have to face them again if things when wrong (my senpai was a disaster and though he didn't have the power to affect my gradings as he was not our teacher, he could and did make training miserable for me when I dumped him by showing up to the VERY NEXT karate class after I dumped him, just 2 days later with brand new gf and sticking her in my face. )

 

I say date this guy only after you finish the course and don't have to worry about what I just said, or the stigma of "teacher dating his own student!"

 

Just be careful. Best of luck.

[ExpatInItaly]

Why does that matter?

 

A lack of dating experience can make people misinterpret signals, or amplify signals which aren't exactly present.

 

I am an instructor too, and I have had two (male) students completely misread my attention to them as something more. They were my students, and I wished to see them succeed academically. Nothing more. Both were rather young and I assume inexperienced when it came to romance. One actually thought I was suggesting a private "personal" meeting when I offered him extra help - the truth was that I had a package of supplementary work assignments I thought he needed in order to achieve his goals. No romantic overtures whatsoever.

 

My point is that you need to be very careful not to project and apply your own desires on his every move and word. I'm not necessarily saying he isn't interested, but there's still little to go on here to indicate that he is. It was the same with the previous professor. Just tread cautiously, OP.

 

Also, not sure what a modeling scholarship has to do with anything...