coralsmith Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 My ex and I share a friendship group. Among these is his best friend of several years. I have always felt a bit more close to this guy, as opposed to other male friends. My ex and I broke up and when we did, I always felt this friend was the one guy who didn't automatically side with my ex. This was 3 years ago. a few months ago, we both got drunk on a night out. the night was a bit blurry, but he tried to kiss me. I was reluctant to and said I couldn't because of my ex. He got mad and accused me of not being over him - we ended up kissing (I have no idea how/why). The next day I asked him if he wanted to talk about it. He said it was best to forget it. My ex found out and initially was annoyed at me, but not his friend.He has since cooled off. He seemed to be under the impression his friend had been planning it, I assured him it wasn't like that. This friend and I seem to continue as normal. I have a few big heartfelt chats with him. Then one day (two months after the kiss), I text him and receive no response. I forget about it. I message him on facebook a few weeks later, no response. I try calling, he doesn't answer. That's when I realise he has started ignoring me - this was 2 months ago. I have asked why, to no avail. I ask intermittently, just asking for an explanation as to what happened, but nothing. I have moved on from being hurt and upset by him ignoring me, and the fact we had been friends for years. I don't even miss him anymore. But it just tortures me that I don't know why. I don't even know if it's related to the kiss, since we spoke like normal afterwards. If anyone can offer me any speculation or thoughts, I just can't seem to move on from this.
Dork Vader Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 You have to keep in mind this pure speculation from everyone that responds. He likely likes you more then a friend! That said he has likely become uncomfortable with those feelings. That stems from the fact that you dated his best friend. It's likely something a long those lines. If you told him you were just friends and made it seem like there was no hope for more. He's moving on.. Why sacrifice his best friend for a woman that doesn't want more? It all stems around the fact that he likes you and you are his best friends ex.
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