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Met a new guy (OLD) and exchanged 5-6 emails before swapping numbers. Text Thur, Fri and Monday (at great length). He misunderstood something I wrote & decided to call and we continued talking til very very late. Before we ended the convo he asked me out twice, asking me when & where & he agreed. I suggested Wed. but not a place specifically because the convo veered off subject (he was a little tipsy- admitting nerves) BUT we ended the convo on a very positive/flirty note.

 

So here we are Wed afternoon and I haven't heard a peep from him- unless for some strange reason he meant next Wed (after the holiday) He is pretty cute, very funny (had me in stitches) and seemed pretty nice so I was hoping we'd get the chance to explore more...so I'm kinda bummed right now. I have no idea wth happened! If you were in my shoes, would you reach out to him? Or leave it alone?

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Call and confirm right now! If he doesn't recall, shame on him for talking to you while inebriated.

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Typical of OLDing. So many games.

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I agree, call him. If you don't hear back within a reasonable amount of time, move on. I gave up on OLDing for this very reason.

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Thanks guys. I took your advice and text him asking what happened. He admits he was tipsy and didn't quite remember...like I said, the convo veered off, but he absolutely definitely wants to meet up. He apologized profusely and has promised to make it up to me Friday night. So I'll let it slide the (one) time... but I mean, seriously!

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You've never been with someone you're very attracted to, that's made you nervous? I've had it happen before... Or did you just post to pass judgement? :p

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No biggie IMO, good luck with the date!

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