Hermes84 Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 I was hoping to get some opinions on a date idea, specifically whether it would be weird to suggest and how I might suggest it. I started dating a woman at the start of this month and things seem to be going really well. We have date 7 tonight, after a string of awesome dates (seems like the best ones I have had in a couple years). She says she loves hanging out with me and we talk on the phone or text every day. We are in our 30s and both want to hold off on sex for a little while due to both having bad experiences with moving too fast. Even still we are both very comfortable with PDA. We aren't dating anyone else, but we aren't exclusive yet. Now she is a big beach person, and is actually leaving for the beach tomorrow for 3 days. I also happen to be going to the beach for 8 days starting the following weekend with my immediate family. We were texting last night about things to do when she gets back, and she suggested a beach trip with this text: "I was going to suggest day beach trip but ur going to be there lol" Now since we just met I think it would be weird to invite her to the beach, especially to the beach where the house my parents rented is located. I was thinking though if this is something she really wants to do that I could suggest meeting at another stretch of beach and hang out for the day. She wouldn't be staying over and it wouldn't be like she is going on vacation with me and my parents and she wouldn't meet my family. What do you think? I think it might be weird to suggest, but I tend to overthink everything (so does she actually haha).
PogoStick Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 Depends on the logistics, distance, will she get a hotel? I (a man) think it would be cool if it's just a couple hours from home. Split a hotel room with her and give her 1 day and spend the night with her. Then back to your family.
Author Hermes84 Posted August 27, 2014 Author Posted August 27, 2014 (edited) She lives about 90 minutes from the beach. Depends on the logistics, distance, will she get a hotel? I (a man) think it would be cool if it's just a couple hours from home. Split a hotel room with her and give her 1 day and spend the night with her. Then back to your family. She lives 90 minutes away so she wouldn't need a hotel. Edited August 27, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator merge
d0nnivain Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 She wants to go to the beach with you. That's a good sign. She mentioned it being a day trip so she may be willing to drive it alone. If you are going to be there anyway & she's willing to come down it sounds perfect. What's the problem?
Supernatural Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 Ya do it. 7 dates in.. Everything is going well.. Just don't meet the fam-jam yet. You seem to know all this though.
MidwestUSA Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 It sounds perfect. She actually threw the idea out there, so run with it! (Provided she doesn't mind the driving). Have fun!
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