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Yesterday was the first day of classes at my commute college. Out of all of my classes there was this one girl who stood out. She had a hockey cup of a certain team and so I said you like the Capitals? And she said she loves them. She asked if I liked the Flyers and I said no I like the Devils and she was like ohhh.

 

Yeah so nothing crazy happened but I thought she was pretty and we have a big common interest which is hockey. So I want to make a move so how should I approach her. I just want to be light and casual. I don't mind putting myself out there for failure I am just not sure what to say.

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Does your school have an ice rink? ask her to go skating.

 

When does the pre-season start? Ask her if she wants to watch a game with you.

 

Otherwise ask her to the next campus party.

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The class we have is poetry. Maybe a do you want to grab coffee and study would work. We don't have a rink at school but there is one near by and the actual season starts soon. Thanks for your suggestions

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The class we have is poetry. Maybe a do you want to grab coffee and study would work. We don't have a rink at school but there is one near by and the actual season starts soon. Thanks for your suggestions

 

Friends get coffee and study.

 

Just ask her out for a drink, or a party.

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The class we have is poetry. Maybe a do you want to grab coffee and study would work. We don't have a rink at school but there is one near by and the actual season starts soon. Thanks for your suggestions

 

Ask her if she likes Pablo Neruda after your poetry class. Might want to brush up on his poems before you ask the question though.

 

Neruda... man, that dude _got_it_. "I want to do with you what spring does with the cherry trees..."

 

Damn!

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Does your school have an ice rink? ask her to go skating.

 

When does the pre-season start? Ask her if she wants to watch a game with you.

 

Otherwise ask her to the next campus party.

 

I like a lot of D0nnivain's sound advice. Do what she says.

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I think asking her to meet for a coffee isn't a bad idea. Just tell her something like I hope this doesn't sound silly but want to go for a coffee sometime?

 

Just don't stay waiting too long, or you might miss your opportunity. :)

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