Trane Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 So I'm the only guy standing a couple of meters beside the bus stop platform. Instead of standing in the sun, I instead decided to get some shade under a nearby bridge while waiting for the bus. A good looking girl and her friend walk past me and stand at the bus stop. One girl starts bending over at the waist so I took a one-second quick glance and nothing more. A couple of times when I looked in their direction to see if the bus was coming, I noticed her friend was staring right at me, I think watching where my eyes were focused. Seconds later they both very loudly say in my direction, "he has to be gay, there's no way he not queer." "The one girl who was staring at me says WTF is up with these guys, are they all going gay?" All this because I wouldn't excessively stare at her butt like a pervert? All because I just wanted to get home and wasn't interested in making feeble attempts at conversation? I think I avoided an obvious ego-feeding rejection from them because I've met a few girls in my lifetime who take pride in doing this to guys. The types who purposely show a little skin and flash body parts at guys with no serious intentions of welcoming his advances. It's falsified BS interest so the guy approaches in vain.
carrie_o Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 They sound immature. Clearly they were seeking your attention and were hurt that you didn't give it to them. They made your "rejection" about you so they wouldn't feel so badly about themselves. Hopefully one day they will learn to stop seeking validation from others. 1
Gloria25 Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 Yes, unfortunately the femenazis have taught women now a days that if a guy isn't treating them like trash something is wrong with him and that bullying men is ok too. You know what the fun part about all of this is? If you would have ogled them they would have called you a pervert and how they have the "right" to show X amount of skin and your "duty" is not to look at them. 1
ktya Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 I would have quipped back "No ladies, I'm certainly not gay, but if I had of stared at that fine piece of ass for very much longer you'd be catching this bus with one hell of a smile on your face."
preraph Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 Well, fortunately those kind of "ladies" and I'll use the term loosely are in the minority. For all we know, they may have been actual ho's but maybe only aspiring ones. Please do not think it reflects on the rest, who appreciate not being oggled like a piece of meat.
irc333 Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 They were waiting for you strike up a conversation with them JUST so they could reject you. But, their mission backfired!
todreaminblue Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 (edited) they do sound immature......you were being respectful......by not trying to look .... not all women who bend over in front of men are trying to get a mans attention though......i remember once i went to this gay club to dance i feel safer at a gay club..plus i took my mum with me..i was wrong i guess...anyway.....this transexual was on stage doing a show......and i dropped my purse off the table.......i bent down to pick it up....and it started a whole monologue how my tits are fat and ugly..never went back to that club again...i assume she/he was gay although i didnt say anything back....i sat there for five minutes while he she discussed my breasts in crude humor.........mum said to me that she he was probably jealous....because she had fakes in where she wanted breasts to be....i never went back to that club..... another time i bent over to look at some ants carrying food to their nest in a crack in the pavement....ants fascinate me.....and a guy walked behind me and said god no...i assume that my ass is big.even though i had a really long dress on.....i didnt assume he was gay....i went red as a beetroot and said nothing.....i was ashamed of my ass, ashamed of my tits....and i didnt warrant for any of those people to say anything about my ass or my tits............neither did you warrant a response like you got for being respectful......some people just suck....but not all women unlike these women.... who bend over in front of you are looking for a reaction......sometimes we drop things or look at ants..........deb...... Edited August 26, 2014 by todreaminblue 1
Woggle Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 If you don't look you are gay and if you do you are a pervert who treats women like a piece of meat. You can't win. 1
todreaminblue Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 If you don't look you are gay and if you do you are a pervert who treats women like a piece of meat. You can't win. thats not true...i think if a guy doesnt look it is respectful and manly to look away....even though they want to look they dont look out of respect...its honorable and high class...if i saw a guy do this...he is on my radar as being a guy of substance...i think the op not replying to them also shows class.........deb
GravityMan Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 Haha, if that happened to me, I would've laughed and made a quip or joke if one came to mind. It's one of those things that's so inane that I can't help but react with amusement. Trane, put those women out of your mind and keep steppin' with your life. Focus more on women who are a little more mature and less ignorant.
Woop1337 Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 (edited) You sound butt hurt. So, you never check out women? You should've said something witty as a comeback. She just tested your manhood and you failed. But hey, I'm sure you don't care. Edited August 26, 2014 by Woop1337
Author Trane Posted August 26, 2014 Author Posted August 26, 2014 You sound butt hurt. So, you never check out women? You should've said something witty as a comeback. She just tested your manhood and you failed. But hey, I'm sure you don't care. I check out women who are more reserved. The kind who don't play the touch your toes check my a$$ game to see if what my sexual orientation is. The kind who can stand up straight and let me appreciate the beauty of the female form without the doggystyle nonsense. How did she test my manhood? I wil purposely fail if it means dealing with girls like this when I'm not in the mood. 1
Author Trane Posted August 26, 2014 Author Posted August 26, 2014 If you don't look you are gay and if you do you are a pervert who treats women like a piece of meat. You can't win. Sometimes it's better to keep certain women guessing rather than being called a pervert or creep. Nowadays a womans word or lying tongue can put a man in serious trouble, especially if it's not true.
Author Trane Posted August 26, 2014 Author Posted August 26, 2014 Well, fortunately those kind of "ladies" and I'll use the term loosely are in the minority. For all we know, they may have been actual ho's but maybe only aspiring ones. Please do not think it reflects on the rest, who appreciate not being oggled like a piece of meat. They are definitely not a majority but a minority is not accurate. Aside from the single ladies who pull this crap, there are enough married women who partake in this ego boosting exercise.
irc333 Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 But hey, I'm sure you don't care. And that's what being a real man is all about. ;-)
KimmyBee Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 They sound like sluts. They're probably used to pulling guys by flaunting themselves.
preraph Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 Next time, look indignant and shocked and say to them, "Ladies, please form an orderly queue."
OwMyEyeball Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 Next time, look indignant and shocked and say to them, "Ladies, please form an orderly queue." Or better yet, compliment them on those stellar outfits and ask for the number of their hairstylist. 3
deathandtaxes Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 Bravo, OP. You looked briefly and ignored them, like any gentleman should. And you didn't rise up and take their baiting insult. Attention seekers, meh. 2
aussietigerwolf Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 I think they just wanted attention and were annoyed that you didn't give it to them.
Assasda Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 OP do you know what the opposite of "Love" is? Its not "hate" -The opposite of love, is pure and utter indifference, and thats what you showed those girls. The thing is, they like you, and your indifference towards them drives them wild. OP, youi could probably have sex with one of those girls if you really wanted. - Dont take all this as an insult, take it as a badge of honor, that they noticed you not noticing them. This story is nothing more than the Aesops fable "The fox and the grapes"
Els Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 These sort of statements are ridiculous - and they come from men as often as from women, IMO. Dude respects her choice to not want to have sex yet? Gay. Dude has trouble with his sex drive? Gay. Dude doesn't push for sex on 3rd date? Gay. Dude actually takes a proper bath? Gay. Makes me wonder if these people actually know what they're saying, or if they're parroting it as a kind of insult and don't even realize the implications. 3
Author Trane Posted August 28, 2014 Author Posted August 28, 2014 And that's what being a real man is all about. ;-) You are right, it's no sweat off my back really. I do question though, why girls behave like this, but I probably should know better. Youngins do this. Grown mature women don't need to.
Author Trane Posted August 28, 2014 Author Posted August 28, 2014 These sort of statements are ridiculous - and they come from men as often as from women, IMO. Dude respects her choice to not want to have sex yet? Gay. Dude has trouble with his sex drive? Gay. Dude doesn't push for sex on 3rd date? Gay. Dude actually takes a proper bath? Gay. Makes me wonder if these people actually know what they're saying, or if they're parroting it as a kind of insult and don't even realize the implications. Hahaha. Seems quite virtuous to be a gay man of honour, respect and restraint. 1
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