preraph Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 If your birthday is coming up anytime soon, you are within your rights to demand a birthday kiss. If not, well, maybe you can hold out until Christmas mistletoe, but IMO, if it isn't his idea, it doesn't really count.
BluEyeL Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 It's going to happen, don't worry too much. Try to create opportunities. I had mine with the flowers, but you could try to find good moments to escalate. I'm confident you're going to be fine.
Author sportsnut89 Posted August 26, 2014 Author Posted August 26, 2014 If your birthday is coming up anytime soon, you are within your rights to demand a birthday kiss. If not, well, maybe you can hold out until Christmas mistletoe, but IMO, if it isn't his idea, it doesn't really count. My brithday was 4 months ago. His, on the other hand, is next month... 1
mightycpa Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 The two women that I loved the most in my life kissed me first. Three, if you include my mom. Now the question is do you want a man too timid to kiss you after several dates if he is indeed interested? Because that timidity will manifest itself in many, many ways that you won't like. 1
Author sportsnut89 Posted August 27, 2014 Author Posted August 27, 2014 The two women that I loved the most in my life kissed me first. Three, if you include my mom. Now the question is do you want a man too timid to kiss you after several dates if he is indeed interested? Because that timidity will manifest itself in many, many ways that you won't like. Sometimes he gets a little difficult to read. Like I previously stated, I never had an issue making the first move before. With him, well, it is different. Crazy butterflies, nerves out of whack, I become so flustered. Then I get scared I will screw it all up. No, I don't necessarily want that, then again, I don't know what the case is. I have already said plenty of times, that I don't feel comfortable asking, given past experiences. I am just simply looking for innocent advice on how to nonchalantly go about hinting. Simple as that.
Els Posted August 27, 2014 Posted August 27, 2014 If I'm reading this correctly, you have had only one actual date so far - I don't think hanging out in a group really counts as a date per se. It seems a bit premature to make assumptions based on that. Anyway, from how you describe the guy (respectful, conservative, gentleman, etc) it sounds like he wants to know you are comfortable with physical affection before moving in for it. There's not necessarily anything wrong with that, though I can understand if it doesn't fit your preferences. 1
Author sportsnut89 Posted August 27, 2014 Author Posted August 27, 2014 If I'm reading this correctly, you have had only one actual date so far - I don't think hanging out in a group really counts as a date per se. It seems a bit premature to make assumptions based on that. Anyway, from how you describe the guy (respectful, conservative, gentleman, etc) it sounds like he wants to know you are comfortable with physical affection before moving in for it. There's not necessarily anything wrong with that, though I can understand if it doesn't fit your preferences. It's not that it doesn't fit my preferences, it is simply that this is the first time I have "dealt with," for lack of better words, a gentleman, so it is all very new to me. I am used to someone attempting to move in rather quickly, with lack of respect, that this pace is quite nice. It is a pleasant change. And yes, you are reading correctly, we have only had one actual 1 on 1 date, just him and I. We are going out tomorrow after work, and this weekend as well, possibly. Both being 1 on 1, as well.
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