Mysterio Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 Which one has been good or great for you in your life? Which one has been chalanging as well? For me Family and friends have been easy. Co-workers/lovers a little bit harder. With Co-W, it's more temperment. Detailing it I only have three friends that I am on the outs with. Lovers = hard interms of getting things off the ground if I am the driving force. No major problems with family. I guess if I had to have one in the real hard categories is making a love connection. It's either my standards are unrealistic/the women around me don't look at me as a romantic prospect. It could be due to my race as I am a black male. I usually mix with white women, due to them being in my social envirinment.
D.Mc. Posted August 28, 2014 Posted August 28, 2014 Maintaining a good relationship with any of the 4 groups you mentioned, can be challenging depending on the circumstance going on in your life at whatever moment. Friends: people have already posted about losing touch w/friends once those friends couple off & have children, you always have to have something in common "currently" w/people who you call friends, or else it's just memories of good times from the past... Family: they can be the best support & care/love BUT...a stranger in the street wouldn't do the despicable things to you they can... Lovers: The term itself implies a temporary thing...lovers don't always become husbands/wives, also falling IN love gives the opportunity to fall OUT of love... Co-Workers: most variable of all: they can become friends or lovers. They also are the group you have least control over since you generally want to keep your job...
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