Feel indifferent about wifes affair and marriage breakup

[GarrusVakarian]

Last year found out my wife of two years had been having an affair with a 50+ year old married man, 20 year age gap. Had apparently been going on for six months possibly longer?. Screwed me over for almost a year. Someone asked me the other day, did I still miss her?. I couldn't really answer the question, because to be totally honest I feel indifferent about the whole thing now. I remember being with her all these years, but I cant put any emotions to it anymore. I feel more sorry for the other woman who has had her entire family destroyed by all of this and 30 years of marriage down the toilet.

 

 

Ex has made her bed and I wish her the very best of luck with it all. But I have a feeling her and her new man wont last and reality will set in sooner or later. But I don't want her back.

[slizl]

I think that is a great sign which means that you are ready to move on with your new life!

[No Limit]

Reality will set in, and it won't be pretty.

 

It's great that you're indifferent to it. And no, it doesn't mean you never really loved her or the like; you are just better at handling these things than many others. Good luck with future partners