Rexxy Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 I get a long really well with this girl in my uni class, we have been on one date and everything is going fine. Yesterday we had an excursion where we pretty much spent the majority of the time together just talking, flirting, etc. The next day I sat down where their were plenty of seats surrounding me. Anyway, she got to class a little bit late but as she walked in she looked at me for a second then walked off to the other side of the room to her friend without really acknowledging me, like no smiling or a quick hey. Ok, no big deal. Lets get on with the class. Our lunch break comes up and we have an hour to do what we want, before I can talk to her she walks out with one of her friends without acknowledging me again. (Now there's only like 7 people in this class so she can see me clearly) Once again I'm not worried, I'll just get on with my work. But the thing makes me think 'what is going on' is 20 mins after she left the room for lunch she texted me saying "are you staying at uni or going home?" then a few texts later she told me "I'm not coming back but I'm at 'location' at the moment" Why couldn't of she just talked to me before leaving the room? I don't understand this type of behaviour.
WhiskeyJack Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 Maybe she just didn't want to seem to eager. If she likes you thats the only thing I can think of. 1
Author Rexxy Posted August 26, 2014 Author Posted August 26, 2014 Maybe she just didn't want to seem to eager. If she likes you thats the only thing I can think of. That's the feeling I kind of got about that behaviour. I guess I'll find out tonight after I ask her out again for the upcoming weekend. Just going to wait until she reaches out to me like most nights then ask her. I'll let you know how it goes down.
Supernatural Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 This chick totally digs you. She just doesn't know what the hell to do. She's trying to play it cool. Like one of her friends is guiding her through this. A girl I liked a lot once did this to me too.. Except it was at a restaurant. I was sitting with my buddy at a high top having a drink and I was facing the door. She walks in, makes eye contact with me for like 2 seconds, runs straight to the bathroom with her friend. 2 minutes later my phone buzzes.. I have a text... "Are you at Chill Winston?" I reply... "Ya... You just saw me." 5 minutes later she stands by the bar... Looks over at me and smiles, like she is pretending it's the first time we saw each other that night... In my head I'm just like "WHHAAAAATTTHHHEEFUUUUCKK?" I go over and talk to her... We were pretty touchy feely. Nothing made sense. But if she was texting me and looking in my direction often... She's interested.
Author Rexxy Posted August 26, 2014 Author Posted August 26, 2014 How much pedestal do you put this girl on OP? Actually this is the first time I haven't put a girl on the pedestal and it's working like a charm. She is pursuing me all the time and I'm loving it! I'm staying back and keeping my cool and it seems to work out.
Author Rexxy Posted August 26, 2014 Author Posted August 26, 2014 5 minutes later she stands by the bar... Looks over at me and smiles, like she is pretending it's the first time we saw each other that night... In my head I'm just like "WHHAAAAATTTHHHEEFUUUUCKK?" I go over and talk to her... We were pretty touchy feely. Nothing made sense. But if she was texting me and looking in my direction often... She's interested. That's exactly how I reacted in my head "What the fuuuuuuck" but it's such strange behaviour to look at someone, somewhat ignore them, and then to text them a few mins later. But anyway I'm going to ask her out again tonight.
Author Rexxy Posted August 26, 2014 Author Posted August 26, 2014 Well just as I was responding to this thread she messaged me on facebook, so I took the chance to ask her out again and she said yes right away. Not putting a girl on a pedestal in the best thing i have ever done, I never thought it would work but it does! In the past I was always looking for assurance with girls, messaging them when they haven't for a little while, not laying back and been cool, etc I recommend everyone to give it a go.
Jet8419 Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 I think I read your previous post about your dinner with her (if it's the same girl) and I mentioned she behaves exactly like me. Well, she's doing exactly what I've done before to a guy I liked, so I can assure you, this girl definitely likes you! She doesn't want to acknowledge you in class because she's shy, that's why she texted you after leaving the class to "talk" to you. She is likely to be someone who is more open while texting rather than in person, so don't get confused by her behaviour at your next date with her if she gets quiet or not talking much. (or you can just ask me to decipher her behaviour because I swear she's like my twin!) Have fun at your date and don't stress too much.
Fondue Posted August 26, 2014 Posted August 26, 2014 Man, this is such middle-school crap. Yah, she's interested in you, but she's playing aloof in the most obvious way. At this point in my life, if a girl I was interested was game playing like that, I'd probably walk away. Not worth it.
Author Rexxy Posted August 27, 2014 Author Posted August 27, 2014 I think I read your previous post about your dinner with her (if it's the same girl) and I mentioned she behaves exactly like me. Well, she's doing exactly what I've done before to a guy I liked, so I can assure you, this girl definitely likes you! She doesn't want to acknowledge you in class because she's shy, that's why she texted you after leaving the class to "talk" to you. She is likely to be someone who is more open while texting rather than in person, so don't get confused by her behaviour at your next date with her if she gets quiet or not talking much. (or you can just ask me to decipher her behaviour because I swear she's like my twin!) Have fun at your date and don't stress too much. Yeah it's same girl haha Sounds like she really is your twin. I might message you if I need any help in the future with her. Thanks for your help!
Author Rexxy Posted August 27, 2014 Author Posted August 27, 2014 Man, this is such middle-school crap. Yah, she's interested in you, but she's playing aloof in the most obvious way. At this point in my life, if a girl I was interested was game playing like that, I'd probably walk away. Not worth it. You would walk away from her for such a small thing like that? Jeeze.
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