Anais Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 What is the biggest sacrifice you have done for the one you love/loved? If you did in past do you think it was worth it?
lexnmike4enomore Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 I stopped talking to my brother. The worst thing in the world. But b/c i was in such a manipulative relationship, the things he said about my brother, I started to believe. He would make me fell bad talking to my bro. Like b/c he messed up with decision, and i didn't, i shouldn't be associating with the likes of him. So when i talked to him, my ex would say "Do you want to be know as a scumbag like him". I didn't know any better at the time. Now I'm not with my ex anymore and me and my brother have never been closer!
Pocky Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 I was going to say I haven't sacrificed anything because the changes that I've made were made to enhance the relationship and wouldn't be considered a sacrifice. However, I remembered the a**h*** that I dated and how I sold my brand new three week old car to move to another country to live with him only to find out that he was a manipulating, controlling, obsessive a**h*** that was the biggest mistake of my life. Bastard - I loved that car.
bluechocolate Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 I left my job & adopted country & friends & moved thousands of miles so we could be together. To be honest, the job wasn't much of a sacrifice - I was really beginning to hate it anyway. The friends were a different matter - at the time I knew no one else here & pretty much still don't have any of my "own" friends. It was most certainly worth it, though I am now at the stage where somethings have to change again. Seems to be a 5 year thing with me (gosh - I've just realised that!!) though the changes are not going to include leaving my SO.
Moose Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 What is the biggest sacrifice you have done for the one you love/loved? I gave her my heart and soul.If you did in past do you think it was worth it?Every red blood cell!
EC Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 I think being in my LDR for a year has been a huge sacrifice for me. ( I mean hello sex only once a month) jkjkjkjkjjk lol But seriously it has been a sacrifice not having the one I love next to me but I would do it again in a heart beat because there is no greater feeling than when he does come once a month and we lock eyes and I realize it's so worth it.
tiki Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 I gave up spending a lot of time with my younger brother (13 years younger) because of my ex-husband. And he didn't 'do' church, so I gave that up too. Peckerhead.
brashgal Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 Nope, my exes sacrificed for me. Well, I take that back - I was the sole financial support several times for months at a time in our marriage - that was stressful.
Author Anais Posted March 5, 2005 Author Posted March 5, 2005 Originally posted by lexnmike4enomore I stopped talking to my brother. The worst thing in the world. But b/c i was in such a manipulative relationship, the things he said about my ... My ex was also like that. I lost my friends. Did not contacted relatives, gave up hobbies. I was "allowed" to work at places where he wouldn't be jealous me to work. Like he was against teaching because students could fall for me. Pocky: However, I remembered the a**h*** that I dated and how I sold my brand new three week old car to move to another country to live with him only to find out that he was a manipulating, controlling, obsessive a**h*** that was the biggest mistake of my life. Bastard - I loved that car. I hope he bought you a new car there! If not then I would buy the same car, last model and forget the bastard. bluechocolate : The friends were a different matter - at the time I knew no one else here & pretty much still don't have any of my "own" friends. It was most certainly worth it, though I am now at the stage where somethings have to change again. Seems to be a 5 year thing with me (gosh - I've just realised that!!) though the changes are not going to include leaving my SO. Good luck with changes! It is never late to start over. Challenges make life interesting. Moose: I gave her my heart and soul. That is sweet. I am glad it was to a person who appreciated it. EtErNaLlYCoNfUsEd I think being in my LDR for a year has been a huge sacrifice for me. ( I mean hello sex only once a month) jkjkjkjkjjk lol But seriously it has been a sacrifice not having the one I love next to me but I would do it again in a heart beat because there is no greater feeling than when he does come once a month and we lock eyes and I realize it's so worth it. I know where are you coming from! LDR too. However, I consider that if I was to sacrifice I would move and quit the job. I am working on decision yet. Getting there! tiki I gave up spending a lot of time with my younger brother (13 years younger) because of my ex-husband. And he didn't 'do' church, so I gave that up too. Peckerhead. I don't know why many men are against spending time with brothers. Jealous or what? brashgal Nope, my exes sacrificed for me. Well, I take that back - I was the sole financial support several times for months at a time in our marriage - that was stressful. I have been there too. Was the one to earn most of money but also deal with his emotional issues to the matter. Biggest sacrifices for me though was to give ex sex every time he wanted and I wasn't in mood.
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