alicia24 Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 My love life stinks. One minute the guy I'm dating is so into me and the next minute he isnt. WTF is going on. We have amazing sex and so much fun when we see each other on the weekends. During the week we dont see each other and it almost feels like he forgets about me or something. I'm new to dating. Is it normal to not see each other during the week? I suggested we get together one night during the week because i cant stand this feeling of does he like me or doesnt he. Suggestions....
HotCaliGirl Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 How long have you been seeing each other like this and how far away to you live from each other?
Author alicia24 Posted March 1, 2005 Author Posted March 1, 2005 its been almost 2 months and we live about 20 minutes from each other
HotCaliGirl Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 Well, do you think he sees someone else during the week? What does he do on weekenights?? Do you ever invite him during the week to your place?
Author alicia24 Posted March 1, 2005 Author Posted March 1, 2005 i dont think he see's anyone else. I asked him if he does and he said he didnt. During the week he works on his hot rod and does stuff around his house. I dont have my own place so i cant invite him over. its not that im pissd about not seeing, it just seems like when there is so much time apart, i feel like he forgets about me or loses interest. like by the end of the week the phone conversations are so lifeless.
Author alicia24 Posted March 1, 2005 Author Posted March 1, 2005 and he used to always jump on his messenger when he got home from work to chat with me because i work later than he does, and now he is never on the messenger anymore. i swear that i subconciously push guys away.
laRubiaBonita Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 why can't you go to his house and keep him company while he works on the car?
Author alicia24 Posted March 1, 2005 Author Posted March 1, 2005 i guess i could but he doesnt invite me over and i dont want to just show up. wouldnt that make me look clingy?
Author alicia24 Posted March 1, 2005 Author Posted March 1, 2005 you know what else i realized. he sent an email for valentines day. Thats it. maybe he isnt interested in me.
laRubiaBonita Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 you have to invite yourself over, but in a way so he actually invites you. but this would entail mid-week calling and such. like oh, i just rented this movie... we should see it tonight.
Author alicia24 Posted March 1, 2005 Author Posted March 1, 2005 good idea any other ways to invite myself over?
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