David87 Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 (edited) Long story short , I dated this girl for 3 years, she dumped me in 2012 and after 4 months she started to date a friend of mine. I just came back from the seaside, I was there with all of my friends except my girlfriend who couldn't come(everything is ok). My ex came with us to, we hung out everynight but never spoke to her, didnt feel the need. One night we all went out to drink a couple of beers, I went to bed early but everyone else continued to party. At 5.00 in the morning I woke up, someone was knocking at my door, hard....I opened the door, it was my ex. I asked her what happened, she said she needs to make a phone call because shes out of credit. I asked her why are you coming to get a phone from me, she said that I was the only one who opened the door looooool ok...... I invited her in and asked what happened. She started to cry, realy cry hard. We were both on the balcony. Her boyfriend went to a club the night before but never come back and she was worried sick she thought he might drown or something. I gave her my phone and went back to bed( she was still on my balcony). After ten minutes or so i started to fel bad for her and I asked if she needs my help and I ofered to go look for her boyfriend. After 1 hour I found him..........he was so drunk he barely recognised me, his white shirt became gray......he slept in the sand.......he was full of vomit , blood and alcohol......I asked him what the hell do you think your doing???? He said he wanted to get away from his gf ......... My ex called me I told her I found her beloved man.....gave him to her and went back to beed. She called me after 10 minutes and said we should have a cup of coffee....I said ok. We hung out for 5 hours, she said that her relationship is horrible and that now she is paing for what she did to me , she told me that she is really sorry for hurting me so bad, she wanted to do that earlier but didnt have the courage.( Her bf cheats on her all the time , he drinks, he parties and all and all he treats her like crap) It was a nice experience ...... she thought the grass is greener on the other side but it was much worse. Hope you guys enjoy my lil story . Edited August 25, 2014 by David87 4
erklat Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 I hope it felt good as it sounds. Even though you are too kind. My x wouldn't be extended such courtesy. I'm maybe too radical but her crying to get back together is the only solution where she gives the power she took from me back. Everything else is plain selfishness. I'd tell her to go to a church and confess if she feels guilt. 1
Author David87 Posted August 25, 2014 Author Posted August 25, 2014 I hope it felt good as it sounds. Even though you are too kind. My x wouldn't be extended such courtesy. I'm maybe too radical but her crying to get back together is the only solution where she gives the power she took from me back. Everything else is plain selfishness. I'd tell her to go to a church and confess if she feels guilt. At the end of the day shes a human being like we all are and she was crying so hard.........
Author David87 Posted August 25, 2014 Author Posted August 25, 2014 How do u feel after this? I feel great because i got my closure . 2
erklat Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 I feel great because i got my closure . How do you mean? You were supposed to have closure for quite some time since you are in a new loving relationship. Might be I'm shortsighted but she trying to communicate anything else Other than a wish to communicate is as useless to me as a chocolate teapot.
Natsu21 Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 So your ex's new beau was your best friend, and he turned out to be a lying, cheating drunkard? And she regrets dumping you now? Bahahahahahahaha. Dude, you dodged a bullet better than Neo. In that moment, she revealed exactly who she and your homie was.... Be glad. Thank the lucky stars you're gone from that mess. Natsu21 1
Author David87 Posted August 25, 2014 Author Posted August 25, 2014 How do you mean? You were supposed to have closure for quite some time since you are in a new loving relationship. Might be I'm shortsighted but she trying to communicate anything else Other than a wish to communicate is as useless to me as a chocolate teapot. She said : I'm sorry for the way i treated you and I deserve everything that is happening to me. That to me means something. What was I supposed to do when I opened the door? Slam it in her face ? Tell me is that what you would have done? This question goes for every loveshack member who is reading this.
redbaron005 Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 It was nice of you to help her, did you tell your current gf about this? 2
Author David87 Posted August 25, 2014 Author Posted August 25, 2014 It was nice of you to help her, did you tell your current gf about this? Of course I did and she said that I did the right thing. 1
mightycpa Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 I think I'm more fascinated by the part that you have a friend who would actually date somebody that you went out with for 3 years. Even assuming that you were OK with that, I'm still thinking Ewwwwww!
Author David87 Posted August 25, 2014 Author Posted August 25, 2014 I think I'm more fascinated by the part that you have a friend who would actually date somebody that you went out with for 3 years. Even assuming that you were OK with that, I'm still thinking Ewwwwww! I'm not ok with that, and after he started to date my ex, I stopped being his friend. 1
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