DazedandConfused8 Posted August 30, 2014 Posted August 30, 2014 She does like to have attention, there were a couple of times when she was like ignoring me, i decided to do the same to see how her reaction was, in that same day or the day after she did the exact opposite, she directed all of her attention to me untill i stopped "ignoring" her. Could it be she is playing hard to get, or as you said just flirting around looking for attention but nothing serious... starting to get a little doubtfull now. Yes, that sounds like she's flirting/playing around.
DazedandConfused8 Posted August 30, 2014 Posted August 30, 2014 This happened today, i was at work as usual, when she showed up in the afternoon, using these white heels wich made as near as tall as me, a miniskirt and a very sexy top, (i belive this was strictly for teasing) i was working at the kitchen wich has only 1 entry, she comes from behind me and says " hi love" i great her back same way with both of us having big smiles, we have a little chat, and then she goes out. After a few minutes i go down the stairs to go get some kitchen ingredients at the garage, she was just leaving with her father, when they saw me they reverse the car a few meters just enough to see me inside the garage, then i dunno if it was her or her father, hit the car horn a couple times, just to get my attention, they stoped when i finnally looked back at them, they both smiled and then left. Later today i asked her cousin wich is also working at the cofee shop in summer vacations to come near me as i wanted to speak to her, i said i wanted what i was about to say a secret and asked her what she tought about me asking her cousin out and what her reaction would be, she gave a big smile at me and said " I dont know, she is kind of unpredictable she tends to change moods quite fast, and its gonna be tricky but you should give it a try, you've got nothing to loose". Any coments on this? As said here before i will tryu to keep her out of cofee shops, instead since the weather has improved a bit this week, i will try to casually invite her to come to the beach with me, and see about her reaction. Am i doing the right thing? Basically everyone here has told you to stop playing games and ask her out already.
Author Tuga Posted August 30, 2014 Author Posted August 30, 2014 Didnt get a change to invite her yet, she came over yesterday, said 3/4 words to me and left the place, didnt show up today. Ive made my mind now, since her intentions are not clear to me yet, i will move on, if i manage to find some other interesting girl i wont hold back because of her, and wont reach for her again unless if she contacts me outside of work then will ask her out. Ive already gave her plenty of signs that im into her, she insnt giving me enough to continue, and i belive in this particular situation were i am working for her father and putting my work at risk if i choose to proceed, she should understand my position in all of this and make the first move herself. I honestly cant be any more obvious about my feelings unless i say it to her face. Thanks for the help .
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