Gloria25 Posted August 28, 2014 Posted August 28, 2014 I guess this thread is another example of why we shouldn't go back to exes - reason being that the same problems you had that caused the break up are still there... Cuz, if I'm correct, her promiscuity is why you two broke up, no? So, her bring up the numbers is just opening the wound for you again. Yes, people who jump from bed to bed so quickly between partners is a red flag, but then again people deal with break-ups differently...some wanna break free, some use another person to hope they can forget you. Also, if she was the one who broke up with you, she probably was already with one foot outside the door - which probably made it easier for her to get with some other guy. Now, I'm not condoning her actions - I'm just trying to explain them. But the whole 'you guess how many people I'm sleeping with' - especially when she knows her promiscuity was an issue for you sounds like her messing with your head and that - IMO - is enough to activate the launch sequence...
Author Dork Vader Posted August 28, 2014 Author Posted August 28, 2014 Yeah it was a big part of the reason things went south. She never physically cheated I'm nearly certain of it. If she had I don't know where she would have found the time too. But that is in the past. The conversation of numbers was odd and I don't really get why she would have said what she did. I'm going to trust that she is being honest and if she isn't I'll find out eventually. Not going to waste anymore time or energy on it.
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