blue_jay_bird Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 I ofter hear of two forms of advice when you are feeling unloved, and you desire more from your partner. 1) Disappear, hopefully will come too you. The laws of attraction. 2) Communicate what you desire. Both of these options have never worked for me. 1) You disappear. They may come around and when they do you have to repeat the cycle. You never feel fully satisfied, as you drag love through the mud. 2) Communicating your desires makes you appear needy and insecure. They try to give you what you want, but they pull away in the end. They know your not going anywhere. Do I have this wrong?
Elias33 Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 Yes you are right, it's utter crap. Feeling love starts with loving yourself. And that WILL attract people into your live. I know this sounds oversimplified, but if you consider that loving yourself leads to self-confidence, getting into things you love to do, and getting yourself to be the best version of yourself, you're bound to walk into prospecting "lovers". Be what you want to have. Don't just stand there waiting and wanting, because you won't know when it hits you. Feel welcome to doubt, feel welcome to scrutinize this reasoning. Or ask anyone what they find attractive. Feeling loved is something that is a result of being attractive or wanted. So that is what you want to aim for, but without manipulation.
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