deathandtaxes Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 I had a first date yesterday with this younger lady I met via OLD. We took a leisurely stroll through an art gallery and then had a drink at a nearby place. She would talk. And she would answer questions. But she never asked me any. I am really trying to remember if I did, but I don't remember a one. Her profile did say she can be shy. Is this a case of a person being shy or is she just not into me? I'm leaning towards the latter. I've only had one follow up text from her. And no response to me asking if she wanted to go out again. *sigh* Unassertive women...
Gaeta Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 Unassertive women know how to reply to a text invitation. She is not interested in seeing you again, sorry. 5
DazedandConfused8 Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 I had a first date yesterday with this younger lady I met via OLD. We took a leisurely stroll through an art gallery and then had a drink at a nearby place. She would talk. And she would answer questions. But she never asked me any. I am really trying to remember if I did, but I don't remember a one. Her profile did say she can be shy. Is this a case of a person being shy or is she just not into me? I'm leaning towards the latter. I've only had one follow up text from her. And no response to me asking if she wanted to go out again. *sigh* Unassertive women... Maybe she just preferred listening to you talk? You can't know for sure until you try another date and see if she opens up a little more.
you_can_not_see_me Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 I had a first date yesterday with this younger lady I met via OLD. We took a leisurely stroll through an art gallery and then had a drink at a nearby place. She would talk. And she would answer questions. But she never asked me any. I am really trying to remember if I did, but I don't remember a one. Her profile did say she can be shy. Is this a case of a person being shy or is she just not into me? I'm leaning towards the latter. I've only had one follow up text from her. And no response to me asking if she wanted to go out again. *sigh* Unassertive women... some women are also incredibly self centered, I have known a couple girls who never asked me questions but were very enthusiastic talking about themselves and it annoyed me quite a bit and I decided to not pursue. Even if a girl isn't interested, its only polite to reciprocate and ask the other person some questions too, but these girls are too focused on themselves.
insert_name Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 some women are also incredibly self centered, I have known a couple girls who never asked me questions but were very enthusiastic talking about themselves and it annoyed me quite a bit and I decided to not pursue. Even if a girl isn't interested, its only polite to reciprocate and ask the other person some questions too, but these girls are too focused on themselves. Yep, I had a girl regale me with tales of how awesome her life was, everytime I tried to relate to convey a detail about my life she managed to switch it back to her. By the end of 2 dates and a lot of time spent in her company I felt like I knew everything about her whereas she would have known nothing about me. I took that as a bad sign and sure enough there was no 3rd date. So imo its a major red flag if they aren't asking about you.
Supernatural Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 Well... That's just lame. I don't like when girls ask too many questions. And then on the flip side, not a single one. A date isn't an interview and it's also not an AA meeting where I want her to talk all about herself.
Supernatural Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 Oh... and I don't think she is interested. I hate first dates too.
Assasda Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 Some women just lack social skills and are just used to making out all the time. Think nothing of it. I hope you didnt feel the need to play entertainer - never do that. You shouldve only texted her when you had concrete plans
Supernatural Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 This reminds me of the last girl I kind of saw last summer for 2 months... She never asked questions, talked a lot about herself, and expected me to do everything - make plans for the evening, pay for her, literally do everything. Some women just think that the guy should have to do everything. It's all about them and the guy is there to entertain them and provide. It's like their question on their mind is "Okay... But what can you do for me?" And nothing else. They are used to having guys chase them, so they think the guy should have to put in 90% work, and she pays back in giving sex. 1
Author deathandtaxes Posted August 25, 2014 Author Posted August 25, 2014 She finally responded, just took 24 hours since I texted. A polite no. I should have known, when at the museum we went to, that she didn't recognize an iconic photo of Johnny Cash. Who doesn't know who Johnny Cash is????? 1
ja123 Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 She finally responded, just took 24 hours since I texted. A polite no. Sorry about that. At least she had some etiquette to respond politely and let you know. I should have known, when at the museum we went to, that she didn't recognize an iconic photo of Johnny Cash. Who doesn't know who Johnny Cash is????? hahaha no kidding, right?! Hey, if she doesn't know Johnny Cash, NEXT! 1
Fondue Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 She finally responded, just took 24 hours since I texted. A polite no. I should have known, when at the museum we went to, that she didn't recognize an iconic photo of Johnny Cash. Who doesn't know who Johnny Cash is????? Deal breaker for me, man. You're better off without this one. I guess I got lucky, my lady arranged a big party at a Karaoke Saturday night. Guess what song she chose to sing during the start of the night? "Folsom Prison Blues!" 1
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