Loveisonlyformovies Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 I was googling around and came across a post on a forum and it suddenly feels like someone has taken the mess in my head and straighten it out. " the coincidence of him meeting this new person 2 months after I left just makes me think "seriously?". And it does hurt me..on a much deeper level. I mean honestly I do feel like she is just getting what he had pent up for me. Literally just showering her with it because they don't hate each other or have animosity or any sort of past. I do know given our relationship, he just wants to feel appreciated and loved. But I also believe in healing. He does love intensely and he is a very very good person. I can't help but to feel belittled as a person. I mean, that's really it? You find someone who fulfills you emotionally & that's the end of knowing me after 6yrs? and you're seriously OK with just not talking to me? Its downright harsh" It's been over a year and a half since the breakup and he's been with her since then... I miss him more each day that goes by. Everyone tells me that we didn't match up, that we weren't right for each other. But we can't really know that since we actually never met. We just fell in love during a terrible timing. Then he meets her and gosh she's so ugly. And their relationship goes so fast and everything I asked from him , he's giving to her. It really does feel like she got what was meant for me :/ this was an eye opener for me... has anyone else felt the same? And how to deal with it? Because I'm still very much in love with him and want a new chance but don't know how :/
Reels Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 Since you have got no place in his life, it is considerably waste of time for you to think about him. Nothing is going to happen at least for now.
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted August 24, 2014 Author Posted August 24, 2014 He insist on staying in touch, he can never stay away for long. Then how to make it happen in the future? :/ it's really the only thing that matters to me
Reels Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 Might be keeping you in reserve, but that's just mean of him. 1
me85 Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 Boy do I know how you feel. It hurt like hell to stop communicating with my ex (who did the same to me as yours did to you.) He keeps me as an option. A back up plan in case it doesn't work out with the girl he left me for. That's not love. He doesn't love me. Please PM me and we can talk anytime you'd like because I know exactly what you're going through and I'm very sorry.
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted August 25, 2014 Author Posted August 25, 2014 At least that means I've got a chance to get him back :/
Reels Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 At least that means I've got a chance to get him back :/ You can try, but wouldn't be surprised if you failed again.
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted August 25, 2014 Author Posted August 25, 2014 We only failed because of the circumstances at that time
Reels Posted August 25, 2014 Posted August 25, 2014 We only failed because of the circumstances at that time And he fall for someone else because of the circumstances?
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted August 25, 2014 Author Posted August 25, 2014 She had her life on track and could be physically there for him, I couldn't. So yes
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