dfa1989 Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 I know everyone says no-contact is the best way to go. I'm having panic attacks all the time. I want her back. I have been in no-contact for the past 16 days. She dumped me and i feel obligated to say something to her. our last conversation was this 16 days ago her : how are you Me : better, yourself? Her: i'm been in bed all day (took day of work) Me : last night last night with the gals? her : no been down Me : i don't know what you want me to say Her : good night i feel she was trying to say something to me here but my last line was trash. I should of cared and asked why. i want to re-contact her
54JA Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 You will probably have a few more of these contact in the future. Although it is not the best thing, many people break NC and attempt to re-connect before they developed the determination to truly commit to NC. I went back and forth and broke NC a few times before I finally committed to NC. Hang in there.
Stsm5934 Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 I imagine she was implying she's been upset and in bed all day. That's what I would mean by that comment. I don't know your background, but if this is a relationship that can't be fixed I highly recommend NC. Even if it can be fixed, a lot of time NC can help you bring more back to the table when you do try to fix it.
Author dfa1989 Posted August 24, 2014 Author Posted August 24, 2014 You will probably have a few more of these contact in the future. Although it is not the best thing, many people break NC and attempt to re-connect before they developed the determination to truly commit to NC. I went back and forth and broke NC a few times before I finally committed to NC. Hang in there. I have been in no contact for 17 days, I'm so tempted to just to contact her so bad. it has left one of the biggest viods in my life and it has been my first major relationship my entire life.
Author dfa1989 Posted August 24, 2014 Author Posted August 24, 2014 I imagine she was implying she's been upset and in bed all day. That's what I would mean by that comment. I don't know your background, but if this is a relationship that can't be fixed I highly recommend NC. Even if it can be fixed, a lot of time NC can help you bring more back to the table when you do try to fix it. Well the reasons for breaking up she stated was she needed time to find her self and she dosen't love me the way she should. I gave everything i had to this girl to raise her sprits, random dances, creative gifts, unconditional love, never told her what she had to do with her life, let her hang out with her friends, took her to vegas. in short i never took her for granted regardless of the depression i was going through at the time.
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