Ernesto Posted August 23, 2014 Posted August 23, 2014 I've been seeing an old girlfriend of mine for 4 months, maybe about twice a month we go to dinner or lunch and it feels like when we were together after we end up having sex, then after she goes home and spends the rest of the time with her boyfriend like nothing happened. Later she will text me she loves me and misses me, I don't reply back. Then sometimes she will bring up me and her beign together again and I agree, but in the end she stays with her boyfriend, she says she's happy with him and loves him and that he's great and that if we got back together she's not sure if we would work out, but how is he that great and she's happy if she's seeing me? I think to myself that if we ever got together and I made her happy and everything she wants in a relationship is she gonna do that to me? I mean who does that? If you're really happy and in love how or why do you want to ruin that and cheat on that person with an EX? I have asked her twice if it's just sex she wants? I told her to be completely honest with me and she said no that she does like the sex but that she wants me to? We broke up because she told me I wasn't there for her emotionally and I was a bad boyfriend and I never will know how much I hurt her even though I never cheated or abused her in any way, but in reality she's the bad girlfriend, Im the her EX before her new relationship we were together for 4 years.
erklat Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 So basically she's whoring around with you? Isn't she a catch... You should start with nc. If she contacts you than you can say that her dilemma speaks a lot and not to contact you agin.
somegoodman Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 She's a typical modern ho. Stop getting attached yesterday. If you can handle it, continue sexing her but don't feed into any of her drama and definitely don't have any relationship talks. She's playing both you and the boyfriend, but if you're smart you can beat her at her own game. Find another girl to go out with and withdraw your attention from the ex. The ex will start to become more invested in you. Once that happens, make her think that you're interested in something more. The sex will be more frequent and you'll have two girls to fill your time. The ex might decide to break up with her boyfriend. As soon as she does this, delete her contact info and never speak to her again. Continue smashing other girls. Field tested. 1
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